I've been single for a while now and have taken a few girls back to my house and then realized that 'this girl is just not doing it for me' after a bit of one on one time and sex with her just doesn't interest me anymore. why do they get so offended when i end up turning them down? i've never been turned down, i hear about it alot, so i guess i just don't understand why???
2007-08-27 02:04:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I too can honestly say that I have never been turned down for sex!! I am not sure why they would get offended. I would rather someone not just have sex with me for the sake of it if they decide that they are not interested. I guess it is just the rejection though, that is pretty hard for a lot of people.
2007-08-27 04:50:01 · answer #1 · answered by CuitePie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you've never been turned down before, I can see why you don't understand. People basically fear rejection; it's not a nice feeling to be rejected for ANYTHING - sex in particular! And so you know, men get offended just as much as women do in that area. :p
2007-08-27 09:13:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty simple actually, it's like, you're kinda saying "you're not good enough for me." Of course that'll pretty much upset anybody, not to mention embarass them. and I guess with some girls, they take it as they're not pretty enough >.> atleast thats what I think. I wouldn't know from experience since i've never been turned down either.
2007-08-27 09:16:24 · answer #3 · answered by Alisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women get angry for the same reason men get angry when they've been "worked up" and then told "no go." Men often tend to force women to have sex with them anyway.
Very many women then just go with flow.
In my experience, when a man wants to be sexual, he thinks it is not normal for it not to happen. If the woman is unwilling, he will tell her that she is abnormal. If a woman wants to be sexual but the man doesn't, then he still thinks the woman is abnormal--and a turn off--and will tell her so in no uncertain terms.
2007-08-27 09:17:18 · answer #4 · answered by philosophyangel 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Because men get turned on by anything ......aaaaaannnyything. If you cant turn a man on, thats the ultimate rejection.
I know men who get turned on by mannequins.
2007-08-27 09:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by Dani 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not really sure, ive never been turned down before. i guess they get upset because they think they have done something wrong.
2007-08-27 09:11:18 · answer #6 · answered by Dylangirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becuase we have hearts and minds u just think with ur *****
2007-08-27 09:13:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've never been turned down before so - idk
2007-08-27 09:57:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋