my sisters boyfriend throws little sexual hints to me and i might of blown it off before but now it seems he throws hints and he sounds really serious. i am married and he knows that
2007-08-27 01:57:59 · 10 answers · asked by kris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would pull hI'm to the side and tell him in a direct , way that im married and don't appreciate the language. If you need to tell your hubby so he is aware of the situation, and he may have to confront him.
2007-08-27 02:09:39 · answer #1 · answered by blackpearl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not really quite understanding your question because it is not very clear as to what you are asking. Well I hope that you are not thinking about trying to have an affair with this guy because it's not worth it. If you are wondering what to do to make him back off and how to tell your sister then I suggest that you video tape him several different times over a period of time so that you can show your sister because she may not believe you, if you have the evidence he can't deny it and your sister will have no doubts about what you told her. after you collected the evidence, have a talk with the guy tell him that you don't appreciate his behavior and would like for him to stop. Also, tell him that you want him to tell your sister the truth about what he is doing. If he doesn't tell your sister, tell her yourself and show her the proof. Also, let your husband know what the guy has been doing and ask your husband to keep an eye on him and how he acts around you, it's better to have more than one person telling your sister that the guy is no good. Hope this helps. p.s. be prepared your sister may not want to believe and may be upset with you but remember why you are doing it, to protect her.
2007-08-27 09:16:00 · answer #2 · answered by fire and ice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are married, no matter how serious he is about throwing sexual remarks your way, it's YOUR job to tell him his actions are innappropriate...and you might want to clue your sister in on his behavior to quite possibly save her from the inevitable heartbreak that has yet to occur. If you are a smart woman, you'd heed this advice.
2007-08-27 10:26:47 · answer #3 · answered by dixi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, in no uncertain terms. that, if it happens one more time your sister and your husband,BOTH find out. And follow through. Too many people get victimized, in the name of 'family tranquility'. Your family is only tranquil because you have been willing to let this man play games. Let him know that the game is over-NOW.
2007-08-27 09:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by Levone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your distance from him as much as possible. Do things with your sister and not with both of them. Try to avoid any sort of situation where you are alone with him. keep your husband around when he's there.
2007-08-27 09:02:40 · answer #5 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Secretly record it and show your sister...she may not believe you otherwise. Or tell him if he doesn't stop, you will tell your sister and your husband, and he will be sorry.
2007-08-27 09:02:54 · answer #6 · answered by bezsenný 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the matter to the sister
2007-08-27 09:52:36 · answer #7 · answered by vicz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first, you enjoyed the attention; but now you're worried. You need to stop playing games with this guy and tell him to STOP IT! That's all you have to do.
2007-08-27 09:03:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him privately. Don't beat around the bush.
2007-08-27 09:02:48 · answer #9 · answered by impasse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look him directly in the eye and tell him to knock it off
2007-08-27 09:01:46 · answer #10 · answered by Pam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋