I've been texting my boyfriend' mate (my bf told me i cud) but now my bf is gellous. last night i text my bf's friend saying i was drunk because i wanted to see if he'd take advantage of me, and he tryed to. Now my boyfriend is pissed off with me, and i think he dumpd me. Please HElP
2007-08-27 01:33:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my boyfriends friend and i are already friend, so really my boyfriend has no say, i guess
2007-08-27 01:42:34 · update #1
my boyfriends friend and i are already friend, so really my boyfriend has no say, i guess
2007-08-27 01:42:54 · update #2
I was only saying i was drunk. I wanted to see why he only txting me. To hard to explain
2007-08-27 01:50:43 · update #3
good job. well i don't blame him. i woudn't have dumped you as well. but what you need to do is talk to your bf's friend and your boy friend and assure him that nothing is going on oh and delete your texts.
2007-08-27 01:37:44 · answer #1 · answered by ah64dtk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it was not such a bright move, so for now u have to let the heads of both parties cool off, in other words, give your guy some time, apologise to him, u cant blame him, u were looking for trouble, u have to understand
look at it like this
how will u feel if he did the same thing with ur friend, u would be pissed off too.
ask for forgiveness
if he dont budge u have messed up, try fix it, if it don work, then u have to walk away.
good luck
2007-08-27 08:42:45 · answer #2 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you want to see if his friend would hit on you? This doesn't make sense. There are consequences from any decision we make in our lives. It would be wise to consider them all BEFORE you make a choice like this again. Not only did you piss off your boyfriend, if he even takes you back (which I doubt) you have ruined any trust that he had in you
2007-08-27 08:43:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK if he really likes you he will understand. He would have also not try to take advange of you while you were drunk. If you are a girl whom does not want to have a boyfriend breaking up with him then why don't you just end it?
2007-08-27 08:40:56 · answer #4 · answered by Redsoxgal1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men have very fragile ego's, talking to his friend was bad enough, but talking to him drunk just to see if he would do anything, thats pushing it, you have to reassure him that he's the only man that you're interested in, and you have to somehow make him feel like a man again, its not going to be easy, but women do have a very special power over men, you have to use your feminine wiles to seduce him back and quickly, GOOD LUCK
2007-08-27 08:40:52 · answer #5 · answered by infiniti's cousin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore this whole thing and focus on your goals and plans..go study, play sports, meet friends and drop these issues you sound too young for it anyway.
2007-08-27 08:38:46 · answer #6 · answered by Larissa_Antipov 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like all of you are playing an immature game and it backfired on you.
maybe your bf was testing you, just to see if you would text his boy and you fell for it - so he should have dumped you.
2007-08-27 08:43:34 · answer #7 · answered by Lady D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this is what you get for being dumb. Now you probably lost your boyfriend over it. Maybe when you grow up you'll be smarter.
2007-08-27 08:41:14 · answer #8 · answered by The Cold Hard Truth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think u should b smart enough to know right from wrong..even if he sais its ok , u dont need to do it, u r not supposed 2...he did right, im sorry but u deserved it.
2007-08-27 08:39:52 · answer #9 · answered by like a bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't blame the guy for dumping you. learn to be more faithful.
2007-08-27 08:41:59 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Slide♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋