He is sincerely apologetic and he has wanted her back for months. She is on the verge of going back to him.
She likes me as a friend but is impressed by what she sees as my experience, intelligence, and maturity. I can work on very gradually attracting her. I do not really care about the ex-boyfriend or even if it is better for her to be with him. He is a short 230 pound tub of flesh with a mouth hole who had his chance and blew it and made her an emotional mess. Is this right?
2007-08-27 00:43:57 · 13 answers · asked by M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am interested in her because she is intelligent and very attractive and very close to my age for once (9 months younger).
2007-08-27 00:45:32 · update #1
I saw several pictures of her and one of them had the date and time at the lower left hand corner, showing it had been taken using a digital camera. I'm pretty sure it's her.
2007-08-27 00:49:20 · update #2
Calm down that might not even be here photograph.
2007-08-27 00:46:52 · answer #1 · answered by TVStar! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well,
She already made it clear she see's you as a friend and she admitted to you she's still in love with her ex. You can't move on into the next relationship unless you're over your last. Otherwise, if you get into a relationship with this girl before she's ready, you're setting yourself up for a heartbreak. I'm telling you because this happened to me. I was still in love with my ex, got into another relationship, and it went down hill. So just be careful and take your time. Plus people don't always fall in love with someone just because of their looks. You can't judge a book by its cover. Everyone has their flaws. I'm sure there was something else she liked but that's besides the point. Just stick by her side. But not for too long. Hopefully she opens her eyes or a better catch comes along.
2007-08-27 00:56:20 · answer #2 · answered by Lena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much you can do brother. I recently met a 10 online as well, after about 2 months of emails and phone calls, great communication connection, or so I thought, I get a Dear John letter today saying she is giving it another shot with her ex. It's hard to have a greater influence on people than ones who actually have contact with her. I'd try to meet her asap so you can show her what she is going to be giving up if she goes back with him. If you care about someone let them know how you feel otherwise they may not know you care and will move on. Good luck man, I hope it works out better for you than it did for me.
2007-08-27 00:52:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she hasn't shown interest in you by now, there's nothing there. She probably realizes intellectually that you would be a good boyfriend, but in her heart its not happening. She sounds like a self-destructive person, who will keep falling for the same unhealthy type of guy (probably a copy of her father). She's been using you as a crutch, trying to get over the other guy.
Do yourself a favor, stop paying so much attention to looks and find a sane girl who will want to make you happy.
2007-08-27 00:57:35 · answer #4 · answered by jljocque 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are able to ask and meet her. yet as some says dont anticipate too plenty in this. difficulty varries some can get stable result some are no longer the only thank you to make certain is to "try".I situation it incredibly is comparable to you met people individually first the only reward of it you will locate her bodily or whether this is a chum or a co-worker you already know extra something approximately her.
2016-10-17 02:31:04 · answer #5 · answered by saucier 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll be amazed at what this guy can get away with. I believe that she will eventually go back to him. She just needed someone to talk to - a man point of view. Let them work it out. Your opinions are value by her, but are highly bias(because you have a love interest).
2007-08-27 01:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just offer to be there for her and talk to her about the fact that she need to be strong and value people who have character. At the very least, she needs to stay on a break from this other guy. You just help her through it. Remember that word character. And another one: confidence. People who stay with people who hurt them or mistreat them lack confidence.
2007-08-27 00:51:14 · answer #7 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thanx for putting your hand out for help. First to avoid being hurt, take it slow and let her make her own decision. Just don't force yourself on her. She is hurting and confused and may succeed in hurting you too.
2007-08-27 00:57:15 · answer #8 · answered by Nyoyange 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
97% of people u meet 'online' are not who they say they are! So chill! And life is about doing what you want! If u think u've got what it takes..go 4 it!! But never tell yourself that you're in love...it's clearly lust!
2007-08-27 00:52:41 · answer #9 · answered by Live for the System! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't put all my eggs in one basket w/this one. If she can't see the trees for the Forrest as it pertains to the loser ex-boyfriend she may not be as smart as you think, AND be prone to making horrible judgment calls in relationships.
She'd probably cheat on you w/the fat ex-boyfriend.
2007-08-27 00:49:41 · answer #10 · answered by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋