Im very shy when it comes to intamacy, i really dont know what to do when me and my boy friend are alone, i want to do something that is really gonna turn him on but i dont know what, so can you guys please help me out.
2007-08-26 17:17:41 · 29 answers · asked by Stephy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Smart women
Edit:
Who would give me a thumbs down for saying smart women turn me on?
Dumb women?
2007-08-26 17:20:04 · answer #1 · answered by Lonewolf 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I think you just need to ask your boy what he likes as everyone likes different things and not everyone would be happy with some of the current suggestions. I know that will be real hard for you as your shy when it comes to that but I honestly think if your are upfront with him he will like that in it self as We all like a confident girl but also like to be able to show and tell each other what turns us on. The flip side to that is maybe the both of you will talk and you can feel safe to tell him something that you like or would like to try thats new.
I have had a number of relationships and while I have always been happy with what my Gf and I were doing I am the happiest I have been now as my partner and I just talk about what each other wants and so forth. Takes a bit of courage but so worth it. Good Luck
2007-08-27 00:50:45 · answer #2 · answered by simon k 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what's wrong with you woman nowadays! a relationship should be base on trust! not getting somebody turn on! it's base on descend love, getting to know each other, having something in common.going out some were special. it's not all about sex, and hitting the sack right away.act like a Ladie. get respect, and you will received it!
2007-08-27 00:37:31 · answer #3 · answered by cool person 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexiness & confidence.
Look good & perform better.
I'm tired of getting violation notices in my email so I won't go into detail, I'll just say: watch porn.
The stuff the girls are doing on there (to the guys) is what you need to do.
If you can't swing that, the guys will get bored and find someone who can.
2007-08-27 00:29:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
every man is different, but keep in mind like attracts like & my point is you & your bf probably have things in common, so i would say, use your imagination & imagine what you think he might like & try it. think of it this way, if he did something nice for you, you wouldnt be disappointed & thinking he didnt pick you up in a limo & take you to a fancy restaurant, you would probably be thinking about what a nice gesture it was or how good it made you feel for someone to act like they care, so its not necessarily what you do, but that you do something. but if you need specific ideas, besides the obvious, making out, massage, sex (only if your old enough though, seriously), i guess if he likes sports or paintball or something, ask to spend time doing those things.
2007-08-27 00:24:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Slim, good looking and passionate, articulate, and not flaunting. If you don't know what to do when alone, he obviously doesn't either. Just wait. What is the rush?
2007-08-27 00:27:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you are alone kis him, hug him, grab his body parts from clothes. for me even the hand of a girl touching me turns on but all guys cannot be same. but also cannot remain cool as you do following thins
Start with a kis and say him to hold you in his arms. better if you are in short dress. then gently ask him " i am thirsty" please grab me please hold me, please fill me....then gently massage his back with you hands on his back.....coming down to his butts over the clothes, rub your chest on his chest...feel his intimacy and telll him you want him.... then retret a little and try to pull out his shirt he will help himslef and then also pull your upper half clothes. then again connec tto each other an d do some massage on his back he will also massage you. try to put your hand in his pants from back and the rub them, take to front he will never affrod it and immedaitly pull down his pantshimself or will say to you. do it and then go again. give him hand job or sex what evr he likes also ask him what he likes.....and go like that..
oh....answering you turned me on....ohhhh
2007-08-27 00:41:06 · answer #7 · answered by PHD 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
cuddle with him kiss him alot when you are doing that
depends on what you want if you want sex
then sit on his lap while he is on the couch and make out wit him
if you want to just make him get that fluttery fealing then just look at him smile and flirt with him
2007-08-27 00:23:05 · answer #8 · answered by The_Info_Ninja 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kiss his neck and that will get his attention. Also wear some nice body spray that he likes.
2007-08-27 00:21:36 · answer #9 · answered by Michael W 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You really need to tone it down and wait until you're married.
2007-08-27 00:23:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋