OMG how would you guys turn this guy down??

Question

okay so im only going into the 8th grade. my mom and i recently moved so we hired some workers to help us relocate. so four guys came who looked fairly young early twenties and they were okay looking and nice. and then this one guy kept hitting on me. telling me i was cute and that i should go out with a guy like him. and i would constantly ignore him and leave him but he would like "go on a break" and come follow me. and it was creeping me out. he kept tryna talk to me and not help the other guys at all and like stroking my arm and stuff. and i just smiled awkwardly and moved away and just say as little as possible. it was embaressing and weird adn i hated every second. but with my personality i didnt know how to turn him down. and i couldnt be too blunt about it cause my mom would notice and like try to kick his *** right there. and even when i told him im only 13 he was like oo so your young and ripe nicee. what would you all do?? im afraid i might face more of this help me!!

just an additional fact. i do honestly look like in collage or atleast 12 or 11 grade. im tall for my age very "matured" physically and being with just my mom i become the mom sometimes to her too so i seem a lot older. so he might have hoenstly thought it was okay...but yeah hes a creep

Answer 1

He has serious problems YOU NEED to tell your mom so that something unfortunate doesn't happen. Be blunt or else he won't get the message and make sure your mom knows because he'll try doing something.

Answer 2

Let your mom kick his ***, and next time after you tell a Man, to stop, your are only 13, etc.... and he does not listen, pick up the phone and dial 911 and when the cops get there you have his sorry butt arrested. What would a guy like that do if he had the chance to get you alone???? He is a rapist/abuser in the making. Don't mess around with this kind of situation hon, you are in way over your head. Get adult help. Tell your mom what he said and did so that she knows and tells his boss so that he knows too. What if your mom would have left and you were there alone with him? Do you think the outcome could have been different? What if he goes to another home where a young girl is living? Turn his Butt in!!!!

Answer 3

okay listen to me, have you ever seen on the news about young children and young girls being abducted from their homes by people who was hired to do something around the house because it happens on a regular basis. Please tell your mom what this guy is doing because he is a perv and you may save yourself or someone else from getting hurt by this dude. All those stories that you hear on the news about childhood abductions and kids being sexually assaulted is usually because somebody failed to report the person in the first place. You say you feel weird, how many times do the cops say that you trust your instincts and guess what your instincts are right. AS somebody who works in the correctional field and seen and know what happens, trust me and tell your mom before it's too late for you or someone like you. Also, have your mom file a police report because if he has a record the police will know if he is a danger to society and can put him back in jail so that he can't hurt anyone.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

He sounds like a real creep and that could almost be called sexual harassment...you shouldn't have to stand for that, tell an adult as quickly as possible if something like that happens again. You have a right not to be hit on or touched if you don't want to and he has to respect your personal limits or face the consequences.

Answer 6

Definitely tell your mom you must you dont know what this guy could be capable of even if it gets worse then bring the police in but this is really bad he must stop so you must tell your mom before you get hurt in some way or end up with something you dont want

Answer 7

Your mom should kick his ***! What a perve! If he's not leaving you alone even after knowing how old you are, he's got some issues. Tell your mom so she can fire him quick. If this keeps up and he doesn't know how to take NO for an answer, it can be dangerous! Watch yourself and never be in the same room as him.

Answer 8

You should tell your parents...This is not normal...Your parents should be aware so that they can help protect you...You are not at the age where you should have to deal with this kind of pressure...Your parents are...Just tell them what you wrote here and I am sure that it will turn out fine...You just might be helping some other girl that he will take advantage of...That you make you feel real good being able to help someone from making a very big mistake...Tell your parents

Answer 9

trust me
avoid them at all costs
or get someone to protect you when you're walking
and never walk alone
find a new way to walk , to get around to wherever you're going to
just avoid seeing them for as long as you can
that really seems like a guy who knows what he wants
he wants you
act like you dont like him at all
i kno it might be hard, because you're.. warm hearted can i say ?
you care for others and dont want to hurt them
but these(this) guy(s) honestly deserve it

honeslty
all he was lookin at was your body
when he said young and ripe nicee
just go with friends
dont walk alone, especially at night
just avoid them
its all i can really tell you
you can call the cops evan if you want / think its right
get a restraining order or something
because those guys are messedd.

Answer 10

you need to tell your mother right now. this can very quickly escalte into something you don't want it to. if you insist on not teling your mom you need to not care about what this sick guy thinks and tell him to leave you alone. your reading, or studying or talking on the phone. you're 13 and he has no business making you uncomfortable. he could be fired for this at the very very least. bottom line is you need to take charge of the situation and, honestly, you have no reason to care what this guy thinks of you if you come off rude. he's sick.