My dad been treating me like i'm an idoit, a failure and he act like i will not have a life. This has been going on for like since i was little. I been trying to keep my cool every time my dad get angrey at me for stupid reasons. He been threating me to kick me out of the house ever since i was like 5 years old and THat still bothers me and for the past couple weeks i been feeling really angry stressed and depressed. And it got worst when my dad cheated on my mom 2-3 times. And he blames me for it.
I talked to my mom about it and they just fight about it. My dad thinks i'm just jealouse of my brother and he keeps on saying that every time i meanin about baseball or any sport.
I wanna talk to some one at school but i don't wanna make them think i'm being aboused. I don't trust my friends they just started a rumers.
So what should i do. Please these has gone to far!
2007-08-26 15:51:42 · 9 answers · asked by YETI 2 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
I'm sorry you are going through so much at home, it's hard enough growing up, and just worse when you don't have a support system. Is there a family member you can talk to? Maybe a grandparent, aunt or cousin?
Don't be worried about talking to counselors or teachers at your school. They are not going to jump to a conclusion that you are being abused... unless you over exaggerate the problems. Most schools have a psychiatrist available, see if you can make an appointment to talk.
I wish you the best of luck. Email me if you have any other questions, or just want to vent. Sometimes just getting it off your chest helps.
2007-08-26 16:02:23 · answer #1 · answered by MELISSA B 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If things are as you say, then you are being 'emotionally abused'. If your mom is going to stay with a man who has cheated on her then I doubt if she can help you. You might go to a counselor at school and ask about some counseling. This is not your fault, your father sounds as tho he has some issues he needs counseling for, but likely won't seek help. And it certainly isn't your fault that your father cheated, wow, hard to believe he would place all that on you. If you get to the point you just can't take any more, then please get help, don't do anything foolish. Your worth too much to let another pull you down. Good luck son, and I will pray for you.
2007-08-26 16:13:50 · answer #2 · answered by tripletaurus 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you feel comfortable talking to your counselor at school? You really need to find a grown up that you trust to talk to that can help you. You are being emotionally abused, and someone in your town needs to step in and provide the help you deserve and need, but you have got to tell. Maybe you could make a call to family and children services in your area.
2007-08-26 16:01:48 · answer #3 · answered by skyelynn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You definitely need to talk to someone. It does sound abusive. A counselor at school can help you. The counselor may even be able to refer you to someone outside the school system. Even if your parents don't find help, you need to take care of yourself. It's awesome that your asking for help, instead of handling the stress in a way that will hurt you. I really feel for you. It sounds like a hard situation. Be strong and make good choices for yourself.
2007-08-26 16:00:15 · answer #4 · answered by haven_ly1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you are in school see the school counsellor and I am really proud of you for "taking the first step" as that is very mature doing that----you are acknowldging that there is a problem and you know it needs to be dealt with------make sure the counsellor knows where you are coming from"that you are only looking for advise because if they declare its abuse YOU still need to live in that house.......So yes see the school counsellor and maybe if you could live somewhere else it would be better for you.......You do not deserve to be treated like that---------You sound like a very responsible person to me and caring. hope all goes well for you....
2007-08-26 18:10:21 · answer #5 · answered by lorr1941 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are on the right track definitely try to speak to a school counselor or any other adult that you trust . Good Luck
2007-08-26 15:59:28 · answer #6 · answered by KatieJ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have to talk to a guidance councellor or something, someone who knows how to really help you get through situations like these. just as long as you tell them the whole truth everything will work out fine. goodluck bud
2007-08-26 16:00:37 · answer #7 · answered by Garte 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find a male teacher, scout leader, counselor, coach, etc that you can bond with.
in the meantime try to listen to your dad more and understand why he says those things instead of feeling hurt and defensive. have a heart to heart with him. tell him the impact on you and LISTEN LISTEN LISTEN to him and really try to understand his feelings and waht he needs (that doesn't mean you have to change to pleasehim, jus tunderstand)
2007-08-26 16:01:33 · answer #8 · answered by Sufi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i understand. u dont wanna be away from them, u wanna help them. i suggest talking to relatives. and meanwhile, just dont talk to him.
counselors might help as well or school pshychologists.
2007-08-26 15:59:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋