My fiance's ex wife pulled a scam that she was pregnant and that the baby was my fiance's. Keep in mind she is remarried, and they haven't slept together since she was single before Christmas! This scam went on for 5 months, and now all of a sudden she's disappeared and won't answer anyone's phone calls. We think she's lied about the whole baby thing just to see if he would go back to her. What do you think?
2007-08-26 15:18:19 · 15 answers · asked by Laura A 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
We were not together at the time they slept together...we didn't even know each other. She didn't start with the pregnancy bit until we got together in march!
2007-08-26 15:25:39 · update #1
She was pregnant during Christmas...and her due date isn't until September...that would make her 11 months pregnant when she is due! I just aint buying it!!!
2007-08-26 15:28:25 · update #2
What do I think? I think she disappeared because she is a liar! She may have told her new husband it was her x-husband's because she's screwed every guy in town and doesn't want hubby to know it! Eventually you will find out if she even was pregnant and a DNA test will tell your fiance for sure. Try not to influence his worries (and maybe joy?) about the possibility of fathering her child. Just support him no matter what... or let him go if it is his & you can't deal with it.
2007-08-26 16:28:36 · answer #1 · answered by DPL06351 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if he was with his ex wife before he meet you and now that he is with you, she maybe jealous of you and his relationship and will try or say anything to get him back. Also though if she is pregnant most likely they have slept together some men will tell you they not still involved with their exes, but if the baby do turn out to be his child, are you willing to still be there with your man knowing that he has a child out of wed lock? If not then you might need to think about a divorce because it won't be easy being married to a man who has children with another woman. He'll be going to visit the baby and sometimes you might wonder did they do something together or what, and nine out of ten he not gonna take you with him to see his baby, so are you ready for this?
2007-08-26 15:36:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How well do you know your fiance? I mean you have only been dating him for 5 months and you're already engaged. How do you know her due date isn't wrong? Why was he sleeping with his ex wife? Please be careful this sounds like a very difficult situation, approach it with caution. Just because you want things a certain way it doesn't mean they'll turn out that way. I don't mean to be such a pessimist but I have lived this whole experience and it was horrible. My boyfriend was a LIAR and the baby was his! I was in total denial because I was blinded by my feelings for him. Please don't let this happen to you. I wish you the best of luck.
2007-08-26 15:48:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if she was pregnant at Christmas her due date is somewhere in September, pregnancy doesn't go by months it goes by weeks and the normal gestational period for a normal healthy pregnancy is 32 to 42 weeks. So her due date could very well be in September. What I think is that you're jealous.
2007-08-26 16:46:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You will just have to wait and see , although I hope not you would not be the first person to be lied to by their fiance. When and if she has a baby and keeps up with the accusations then have a DNA test to confirm and if it is true he will have to contribute financially and you will be an instant step mom. I would think if his plans are to marry you then you have no worries about them getting back together.
Good Luck to you and you fiance.
2007-08-26 15:52:31 · answer #5 · answered by BILL 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well for starters....*I* got pregnant in January (around the 1st).
I'm due Oct 4th so if she was preggers around Xmas then YES she COULD be due in Sept.
but honestly it just sounds like she can't let go.
how should you react? as a loving fiance...stand by your fiance's side. Let HIM handle her, and stay out of it.
TRUST ME...it will cause a LOT less headache for you down the road if you try not to worry about her.
2007-08-26 15:44:39 · answer #6 · answered by ☆MWφM☆ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would make her 10 months, which is how long you are pregnant for. its 40 weeks. (if she got pregnant on christmas her due date would be sept 25th)
I think if you werent together at the time it shouldnt matter to you. Even if she is pregnant and this kid ends up being his, there really isnt anything you can do about it. Have him get a DNA test.
2007-08-26 16:13:56 · answer #7 · answered by Olivia's Mama 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 07:06:37 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't address ignorance. It only fuels the fire. Unless they have children together and your fiance is been deprived of his rights to see his children- let it go. If she doesn't answer his calls- it may be that she is out of your lives. And it sounds like that would be a blessing.
2007-08-26 16:13:52 · answer #9 · answered by Tamirria Taiki S. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By my math, this could be only about 8 months. So she could be pregnant by him.
I also dont like the math that you are already his fiance, and he was with her only 8 months ago. Im also am hoping there are no other children involved.
I really dont know any of you, but by this time frame, I would have no idea who to believe.
????? Even more confused, just looked at your previous questions.
2007-08-26 15:26:15 · answer #10 · answered by lillilou 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋