Ok so theres this guy that I like (my friends cousin) he knows I like him and I have been told that he likes me BUT I'm confused because he doesnt really talk or call me.And I think hes just nervous like me maybe.But last night was what made me really confused when we were at a birthday party all my friends and he left it to come hang out with his cousin ( my friend) and my best friend his cousins wife.and well myself.But before we left my crush wasnt around and my friends introduced me to his uncle and he asked if this was his (my crush)'s girlfriend meaning me.So the uncle already knew about me and when we were all hanging out last night there was alcohol involved .went back to my friends house to watch a movie the 4 of us.sat next to him and by the end of the night we were holding hands and he was a gentleman and didnt try even to kiss me lol.so we got enough nerve to hold eachothers hand.Im just confused I know I shouldnt be a wimp but dang I have no clue what to think!!!
2007-08-26 13:34:17 · 5 answers · asked by chevygirl915 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, it's a start. Give it a longer chance. I have had a lot of experience on dealing with these matters, so here is the advice i give to you. a lot of guys are really shy around a girl they like, believe it or not. give him time to come around, and give him a longer chance, and see what happens. i did, and now i absolutely love the dude. but yea.
2007-08-26 13:41:46 · answer #1 · answered by nikkiebushnell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would appear that you guys share a mutual interest in each other.However, to prevent any confusion and misunderstanding, I would advise you to sit down and have a heart-to-heart chat with him as to the type of relationship you guys want to engage in.It is very easy to get carried away by the good vibrations and to believe you are a couple when the other person is not of the same mind.Hence, to avoid a broken heart, hurt feelings, or the belief that you are been used,it is important to clarify matters --such as likes and dislikes,goals, if anyone has a person they are involved with etc..I hope things work out for the both of you.
2007-08-26 13:50:47 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a girl likes a certain guy, she usually over analyzes situations. I think you might be over analyzing...
The most effective yet subtle way to find out is to consult your friend (his cousin) about this.
Or if you're brave enough, go ask him directly.
2007-08-26 13:41:28 · answer #3 · answered by raine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds lik this boy is already calling u his gf so jus go with it u lik him so there shouldnt b a problem lol n holding hands is very romantic so it sounds lik u guys jus started off a brand new relationship
hope this helps
2007-08-26 13:38:23 · answer #4 · answered by blumunke93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your both a little nervous. just take things slowly it not a race.just be your self am sure things will work out fine good luck.
2007-08-26 13:40:23 · answer #5 · answered by willy wom bat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋