I hate the world, its terrible, i was raped at a very young age by my brother, whom i still live with and who currently physically abuses me, and same with my other brother and my dad. they all hit me, im always mad and i get angry really quickly. im stuck in the house, i don't have a car even though im 17, and i can't have a boyfriend, cause i don't really like men or women, im somewhat asexual, but i just can't stand life. I hate it. I thought about suicide, but then id feel like a coward. Im completely miserable my grades suck, i don't want to be around my friends, but the strange thing is, i feel like my life has been miserable for a very long time, 14 was the time i started being miserable. I was unhappy before but not in a hopelessness sense. I can't go to a psychiatrist cause my parents wont let me. What do i do?
2007-08-26 12:50:06 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Tell all of this to your school counselor. Don't let your parents know until after you see the counselor. They can take care of you home situation if you are completely truthful about the rape and all. You definitely need to see a psychiatrist and get on some medication for depression. Tell your counselor that also. Good luck!
2007-08-26 12:57:39 · answer #1 · answered by MissKathleen 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have to take things into your own hands. YOU ARE MORE IMPORTANT THAN ANYTHING OR ANYONE ELSE in your situation. Remember this, What shall we then say to these things? If God be for us, who can be against us? - Romans 8:31. The Lord daily loadeth us with benefits, even the God of our salvation. Selah. - Psalm 68:19. I am angry too about what has happened to you. I feel intense sympathy for you. Do well. You know the best revenge IS to do well. You need to work on finding employment and housing, BUT you must go to a social services place like the Red Cross and/or the Salvation Army. You can't go to these agencies without indicating that you need reassurance of privacy. They will ask you why you have requested their services. Tell them that you need help getting housing and in finding a job. When you are honest up front, these agencies will help you. Another tip is this, BEFORE you enter any home or public building, quietly say "Peace Be To This House." - Luke 10:5. You will notice that those who are on the premises, will have a decidely more placid behavior. I wish you well. Peace, Love and God Bless.
2007-08-26 13:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by In God We Trust 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey life is hard for everyone, but it sounds as if you are worse off than some, go to school start documenting all of the abuse and have a counsellor at school take pictures if you have bruises or anything, put a recorder in a room where most of the abuse happens and record the abuse, after a couple days and I know that is hard to do but when you believe you have enough go to the police with all of this information and ask for help to leave the situation! You have nothing now from the sounds of it, so what will it hurt if you have to walk away from your life with nothing more than the clothes on your back.
2007-08-26 13:03:34 · answer #3 · answered by jacki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to feel angry. Lots of people have bad childhoods, some worse than yours. You are going to need independance to distance yourself from your past. This will take time. Be patient. Think about how doing well at school and getting a job will help you at least rent a place of your own in a few years time. Eventually you'll be able to differentiate the adult you from the child and put the past behind you. There is a lot of love in the world as well as ugliness. You can make some more of that love or you can add to the hate that's already there.
2007-08-26 12:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definately need to talk to someone asap. These feelings are very serious adn need to be dealt with. If you just let them linger then you will end up living your entire life filled with anger, rage, resentment and a number of other issues to deal with because of the horrible things your have in the past & are currently dealing with. I know you say your parents dont want you to deal a therapist but it seems to me your best interest are not a main focus of your parents right now. There are centers all across the nation that provide counseling to ppl of all ages at low or no cost to you. You need to either talk to an advisor at school and have them put you in contact with an agency that can help you are you must call child protective services and have them help you find couseling as well. This is not something you can deal with on your own. I am sorry you are feeling so low but there are people that can help you. I hope you are able to seek help.
2007-08-26 13:01:40 · answer #5 · answered by neek 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing to do is go to a psychiatrist, Maybe sneek to one or go to the cops. If nothing else, you need to talk to the people that matter most in your life, which could be your friends. I'm sure they would understand and give you some advice, maybe one of them will even let you stay with them. Suicide isn't the answer so get that out of your head. You just have to look at the positive side of life. I wish you good luck :D
2007-08-26 12:55:21 · answer #6 · answered by Chantel C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 17. You are old enough to work, make some money for yourself, then find your own place. Get you an apartment or something. You will feel 100% better, because you are doing something for yourself.
We have all had bad things happend to us in the past and we all have bad things continuing to happen to us. That's just life, those bad things make us stronger, so we can help someone else one day that is going thought the same thing.
Try to find you a local church, Usually churches get people feeling better and get you on the right path. You can email me if you need someone to talk to.
2007-08-26 12:58:48 · answer #7 · answered by Imdatchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some help. Even From the school you goto talk to your counselor No one deserves to feel like that. Make changes in your life small at first. with your family Tell Your school they can help Cause abuse is so unacceptable in a house hold. I know i cant help much but i know how you feel and no one should live like that
2007-08-26 12:54:55 · answer #8 · answered by Ninja 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell if you're being serious, or if you have an extremely bad sense of humor.....
If you are serious, then the answer lies in helping others like yourself.
The first step, is to get out of your negative situation. Call the Dr. Phil show, and tell them what you've just written. That bald bastard is more powerful than the police....
Then work to help others out... that is the only "balm"... the only thing that makes abused people feel better, is to help others...
2007-08-26 12:56:01 · answer #9 · answered by looks like a human 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh honey you need to get to a shelter or somewhere where you can stay. Surely anything would be better than where you are now. You need to get out and be in control of your own life. Make a decision to not be a victim bc the best revenge is to show them they didn't win or break your spirit. There are people out there who can help you.
2007-08-26 12:57:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋