My son, Will was kidnaped years ago. The person who kidnapped him went out for good conduct. Now, we've been recieving phone calls that are threatening to take him again? Also e-mails and other stuff?
Also, how can I tell him that, specially when he hasn't wanted to TALK to us after an incident that happened yesterday? Notified police, but they say its intraceable because it always occurs from a different location?
HELP, PLEASE, I'M GETTING VERY SCARED. CALLS ARE ANY TIME OF THE DAY!
2007-08-26 12:46:13 · 11 answers · asked by Music 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
The guy calls from a DIFFERENT number always, so I can't track him.
2. I've got an alarm system
3. What if he was kidnapped before and I don't want to tell him. It's already bad enough that he has chosen not to speak to us for today? He hasn't even gone out of his room, and has locked his door.
HELP, HOW CAN I TELL HIM ABOUT THIS IF HE WON'T EVEN LET ME IN HIS ROOM?!
2007-08-26 13:17:37 · update #1
Also, he hasn't even gotten used to living with US, less to living in the house. At nights I hear him mumbling about what happened, and I know its about what happened before, because I can make out a few words. I'll post the link were you can see the whole story.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aq6cAzLFJq4X6Chg2LC3V2167hR.?qid=20070825175536AA4UraO
2007-08-26 13:20:37 · update #2
Also, we can't move again, even less change our names. After the first time, when we got Will back we moved, my other kids even had a change of father, Will too, since his biological father mistreated him.
Also, how can I make my family suffer more, specially after all they've been through?
Also, Will gets TKD, but prefers to be with our dogs than with us. Any ideas, please?
2007-08-26 14:44:37 · update #3
have police patrolling your house. Hopefully youre not living in the same home as when he was kidnapped. This is a serious issue and you should consider moving
2007-08-26 12:49:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire someone to guard your child.
Get new locks on your doors and windows, change your phone number, cancel you e-mail address. If it needs to be I would move. Make sure the school is aware of what is going on. Do whatever it takes to keep your child safe. Call the police every single time until they take you serious. Keep a record book and log everything.
2007-08-26 12:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by Oh me oh my...♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have the police patrol your neighborhood more often. If this person sees a police presence he will think twice before striking again. His parole officer should know his whereabouts also, so the police should be able to track him that way. The prison should have a record of who his parole officer is. If he is emailing you, have the DA subpoena their email server for his information. You may need to provide the emails to them for proof that it is threatening. There is also a way to track where an email is coming from. My friend did it when her husband claimed to be in Kentucky looking for a job and found out that he was in Canada cheating on her with some whore he met on the internet. Check with your email server to find out how to track it.
2007-08-26 12:59:09 · answer #3 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make sure he has a cell phone , if he's old enough to dial 911-- have the police take the issue seriously, Have Will take some self-defense classes- at least in order to get away, this is where gun laws could be for your benefit to. He maybe to young , but I would get one if I was in your shoes and have it in a safe place, but somewhere where its easy to get to. Make sure you move, and at least have some kind of alarm system.
2007-08-26 12:51:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the phone service and have their # blocked from being able to call you. The police can say it's untraceable but it doesn't mean they should ignore the fact that the sons' now in danger. Serve and Protect right?
2007-08-26 12:50:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI, its must be hard for you. Can they put you both in a safe house so that you don't have to worry.
Maybe you should move in with a relative for the time being.
Maybe change your name? Is your name and address registered in the local directlory.
Last resort would be move and change your name so they don't know where you are.
All the best, must be a scary situation for you.
2007-08-26 12:51:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Like the first person, u need to get somone patrolling your house. Moving is a serious thought. DO NOT get Will worried because it usually ends up horribly i u do. change your email adress, and your phone numbr. MOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-08-26 12:52:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with your son at all times! keep all shades down,windows clesed, doors locked,and windows locked. if u need to leave the house to get smoething,ask a friend to get it for you. what ever you do do not leave him alone and if he's in public make sure he is holding ur hand
2007-08-26 13:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by Kelz(: 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make sure you home alone...invite the bastard over... get a gun...sit in a corner where you would see him from any angle....leave the doors unlocked and shoot the bastard....thats what I would do...or I would begin to harrass his ***...start calling ...going to his house...you know...stuff like that... dont live in fear
2007-08-26 12:52:09 · answer #9 · answered by Candy k 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Id move and possibly think of a change of last name so your harder to find
2007-08-26 12:51:08 · answer #10 · answered by connie p 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋