My boyfriend chews.He even does it in front of out 21month old daughter.She thinks it's gum.That is what we tell her.Were both nineteen and he has been chewing for about a yr or so.
Do you think it's wrong to do that in front of our daughter?
Thanks.
2007-08-26 12:15:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I am not sure what your actual question is because you asked two different things. First, you asked about making out with your boyfriend who chews. If you mean while he has chew in his mouth, then I would say that is definitely disgusting.
Then you asked about your daughter seeing it. I don't know if you want to know if it is wrong for him to chew in front of her or for the two of you to make out in front of her. If she thinks he has gum, then I don't see any harm in it, but it would be great if he quits before she gets much older.
If you want to know if its ok to be making out in front of your daughter, then the answer is no. It is one thing to kiss in front of her, but there is no reason you need to be sitting there sucking face while she is playing 5 feet away.
2007-08-26 12:27:01 · answer #1 · answered by T F 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
His daughter isn't going to know. You on the other hand must have a strong stomach to be able to make out with a boyfriend that has a chew in his mouth.
2007-08-26 16:38:57 · answer #2 · answered by Classy Granny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's far less dangerous as smoking... If your daughter should find tobacco and chews it now... she'll dislike it very very much.
Around age 12 she doesn't want to be seen chewing tobacco, but... will be just as curious to smoking as most kids of that age.
Allowing her to only chew tobacco when she's curious at age 12 plus a good education about tobacco might (!) withhold her to use tobacco ever.
2007-08-26 12:38:20 · answer #3 · answered by Bart D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's wrong overall. Good thing he does not smoke in front of your daughter though, because she would end up with guaranteed lung problems. But if he isn't planning on quitting, then I don't see why he can't do it in front of your daughter. And if you are comfortable with kissing him while he has something disguisting in his mouth, I don't see why that should be a problem.
2007-08-26 12:25:12 · answer #4 · answered by babigrl22 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its wrong to make out with someone who chews, if it doesn't bother the both of you it doesn't really matter.
I don't think its wrong to chew in front of children, they're going to find out that dad chews eventually, and its not harming them in any way.
2007-08-26 12:30:35 · answer #5 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's gross. You might as well chew tobacco yourself. BTW, if your boyfriend keeps it up, he'll end up with mouth or tongue cancer in a few years and you won't be ABLE to kiss him.
2007-08-26 12:22:50 · answer #6 · answered by Resident Heretic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the tobacco on your mouth from kissing him, so it's like you're chewing too. Tobacco isn't illegal, though.
2007-08-26 12:28:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have grown up before getting married, and DEFINITELY before giving birth to a human being.
It's disgusting. You kiss him, you might as well do it too.
2007-08-26 13:00:32 · answer #8 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not wrong..But nasty to make out with a tobacco filled mouth.
2007-08-26 12:22:04 · answer #9 · answered by Denise 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
no its not wrong its just gross and yeah he shouldn't do that in front of your daughter
2007-08-26 12:23:16 · answer #10 · answered by ndbt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋