Im in 6th grade and a lot of people Think its not right but... idk how to put it but... ITS SO HARD TO RESIST! I meen My sister has had a boyfriend when she was three and kissed him and another when she was in 2nd grade and continuse to have more!! But My mom doesnt think its right for me to have one yet.................................. but everyone in my class does and its sooooo hard not to!!
please give advice!!
2007-08-26 11:50:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look sweetie, you should focus on school and making good grades over boys right now...It may be hard, but you can't go wrong with doing good in school...You will have plenty time for boys later, they are nothing but trouble at you age. Look towards your future.
2007-08-26 11:56:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can give you all sorts of reasons why you're too young. In 6th grade...you're about 11 (maybe 12). When I was your age I found myself always trying to get my friends to talk to my crushes but I never had a boyfriend. I felt the pressure to get one since everyone else did. It hurt, too. I didn't have a boyfriend until I turned 15. I wouldn't even have called that a serious relationship. A few years later, I'm now in a serious relationship. I am 17, he is 21. The reason why I didn't bother going off and having a million boyfriends at such a young age was because I felt I was smarter and better than that. I knew that it was all bull crap and it was a waste of time. It's only hard to resist because that's what you're used to seeing. Stupid bf/gf things where everyone passes notes and says "I Love You" after a week. None of it is real enough. My advice to you is to not give in to the fad. It's not what it seems. You're better off waiting instead of looking back at all those dumb boys you went out with.
2007-08-26 18:57:23 · answer #2 · answered by TegLover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im going 2 start 7th grade soon.......so i have been in ur position. i know how hard it is to resist guys :P! but listen 2 ur mom. im not allowed 2 have bf but i still have one. it sucks because im keeping a BIG secret from my mom! and u dont really want 2 deal with the consequences later. but u can go out with guys first b4 making the decision 2 be bf and gf! hope i helped u! good luck! so i would say that u arent that young but if ur mom says no then dont do it! but if u do disobey ur mom then u have 2 make sure this guy is really nice and kind. if ur looking for a serious relationship most likely ur not going 2 find it. but if its for fun then yeah go for it! but most guys in 6th grade are immature and dont really care about the others feelings! (so dont get 2 atached to the guy) :D
2007-08-26 19:03:17 · answer #3 · answered by skter56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, i know how you feel. i'm a 7th grader and NO you're not too young to have a bf. i had one in kindergarden, 1st, 3rd, 4th, and 6th grade. and i'm working on getting one know. i know it's hard to resist, trudt me, boys are just so awesome. but remember one thing, if you get a bf there's always a chance that he will break your heart. it's happened to me. if u and some guy like each other, start going out at school, then whenever he asks u to the movie or sumthin, just sit down with your mom and tell her how much you like him and that you know that ur responsible enough to go to the movies with him and that your ready for a bf. she should understand, and if she doesn't don't get mad at her even though i know you will just don't show it. she'll think of u as more responsilble and call ur bf and just tell him why u can't go. he'll understand. hope i helped! ~Makenzie
2007-08-26 19:02:07 · answer #4 · answered by Makenzie♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do u wanna have a bf just because everyone else has one? what the heck do u kids know about having a bf a real one. not some kid u like, and hold hands and whatever. i mean someone who truly love, and would give ur life for? ur problem is u wanna blend in. u dont wanna be different. u follow because ur afraid to lead. and thats only gonna get u pregnant one these years. if u keep doing things because everyone else is doing it. u need a reality check.
2007-08-26 19:03:17 · answer #5 · answered by cuban cutie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little kiss when you are 3 is different. I think it's best for you to just be friends with a boy but not 'boyfriend/girlfriend' there is plenty of time for that, honestly. Get busy with activities and involved in things and stop worrying over stuff that won't matter in ten years.
2007-08-26 19:01:47 · answer #6 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are to young to have a boy friend but if you want to it is your decision. I got my first one when I was in 7th grade and it was just stupid. You don't even have real meaningful relationships at that age. Wait until your in high school. And please do not rush into physical things if you do decide to date. Know that it will most likely not last and save yourself for someone special. Kissing isn't bad but nothing more at your age.
2007-08-26 18:58:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny, Be proud your the only Mature one.. I Started having a Bf in that grade, But they were still young & imature love.
Good Luck!
2007-08-26 18:54:49 · answer #8 · answered by Christine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are too young. 15/16 is about the right age to start having romantic relationships.
2007-08-26 19:01:34 · answer #9 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. When I was your age, kids at my school had "boyfriends and girlfriends." But quite frankly, it lasts like a day. If it lasts more, they usually don't even talk to each other. Trust me, it's better to wait a few more years.
2007-08-26 18:56:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋