Why is it considered acceptable for girls to wear skimpy clothes, but appauling when a guy looks?

Question

I see more and more young women wearing close to nothing. Yet, men who are programmed to respond to women's body are not suppose to notice. Does this make any sense? Also, the men who don't notice, do they get arroused when they are will a women?

Answer 1

some of those men
already have a woman

already been past all those women who can look so fine yet be so hard to live with

some of those men know that it is easy to get attracted to alluring flesh but it comes right down to it that what comes out of the mouth from the heart is what you end up spending your days with

the wise man that has not already found his own looks but at other than flesh
he looks at how she acts
what is coming out her eyes
and her mouth

and he picks one that yes arouses him
but nurtures and loves him too

and when he finds such a one
he takes good care of his treasure
and they grow side by side

even if they love to dress skimpy and watch people look
after all if you develop yourselves why not show off

Answer 2

Women shouldn't be surprised when men stare if they are dressed immodestly. Men are visual by nature and will be stimulated very easily at a sight like that.

Women should be aware of men's weakness and so dress modestly in order to not lead men into sin. If she does it deliberately, a woman is partly responsible and becomes guilty of impurity herself.

However, since men are aware of "what women are wearing these days" they in turn bear some responsibility for keeping a watch over their eyes. That means trying hard to look away quickly and not staring or entertaining thoughts for a long period of time. It also might mean steering clear of certain magazines, movies and TV shows to avoid being led into lust.

Both sexes bear responsibility.

Remember, there is a reason women dress worse and worse these days. Because men have encouraged it! Women dress for MEN (in order to compete for their attention from other women) and if men would stop looking at pornography and talking dirty and asking their girlfriends and wives to wear scandalous clothing and making movies with the stars wearing next to nothing, most women would get the hint.

Modern man has shown his approval of immodesty and women are following the cues by the way they dress.

Answer 3

It should be appalling that young women dress like that Maybe they target a certain age group, but males of all ages will look, and they know that. It ISN'T acceptable, but sadly, it still sells.

My friend's husband once told her that a lot of men don't want to see everything, they like a little mystery. They also like knowing that nobody else sees those parts of you that are intended for them alone. Modesty isn't unattractive.

Answer 4

I do not understand this either. They wear "skirts" that have less fabric than belts and shirts cut down to their belly buttons and then get upset when you look their direction. It is like Madonna complaining the media was following her when she went outside her house but when you go outside your home wearing a pointed metal bra, I think celebrity photographers will snap pictures (after they stop laughing).
I prefer women who leave something to the imagination and don't dress like they will jump into bed with any male in the world.

Answer 5

you know what this is so true I think girls should be wearing more it is nature a guy is visual and is going to look most likely if it is reavling parts of you you don't want to be seen than don't wear that clothing I mean come on it's like takeing something that you don't want people to see than puting it in the open and highlighting it

Answer 6

It is MY OPINION that those 'women' are HYPOCRITICAL and slaves to fashion! They HAVE to wear what the fashion industry says is "cool." They are too stupid to think for themselves and have to follow what they're TOLD to wear.
"LOOK AT ME" their dress habits shout. But when men do, the men are "PERVS".
You dress like a street walker, expect to be TREATED like a street walker.
I know a 56 year old woman who dresses conservatively but OOZES sexuality. And nothing is showing...no hip bones, no belly button, no breasts, no 'thong' panty...you can't see the pimples on her butt like some 'sexy' girls who wear tight pants.

Answer 7

If a girl wears skimpy cloths then she cannot get mad about the looks she gets

Answer 8

As a man I have to tell you that we live in a man's world. We are still able to dictate to women how we want them to look, what we want them to wear, what we want them to do and how we want them to do it. We even demand what is expected of men.
I personally would like to see that changed. I'm not sexually into pretty boys(and it's a shame I have to qualify that) but I would like to see the beauty of youth displayed in our society equally between boys and girls. I would like to live in a society where we would be able to enjoy that natural masculinity of some women and natural feminine qualities of some young men without hanging useless sexual innuendos upon them.
Unfortunately not only are we sexist but homophobic as well. So much for our liberated Western cultural society.

Answer 9

Who says it is acceptable for young women to dress this way??? I certainly don't think it is. Of course guys are going to notice, that is why they dress that way.

Answer 10

Those women have no self-respect. They should take a long look in the mirror before they leave the house.