My boyfriend tries 2 hide the fact that he isnt fooling around but i have hard proof that he is....I conversate with a few of his girlfriends on the phone a couple times and we discussed him. The other girls dnt know of each other but im the only one who knows of them and he fnd out that i tlk 2 them and that ive discussed him 2 them....Now he's mad at me going off saying i didnt xpect this from u tlking 2 girls behind his back abt him and his ways. I think he's trying 2 make me feel like im the victim because i know and ive been tlking to them about him but i still love him. He's making me regret that i even conversated with them and that b/c i know he's mad. Why do you think he is doing this or acting like this because he found out im communicating with his other girls. I think he's making me feel like the victim b/c im spose 2 trust him dispite his wrong doings if i love him. What do you think?
2007-08-26 10:29:32 · 10 answers · asked by Tryna_Make_It 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is making you feel guilty because he is coniving and manipulating. Don't let him play mind games with you, stick up for yourself, laugh in his face, and find a real man.
2007-08-26 10:36:38 · answer #1 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, id have to ask you why you call him 'your boyfriend"? but then say you have talked to two of HIS girlfriends. It doesnt sound like he has 'a girlfriend' but has several friends,.
Alot of guys , when caught cheating will try and turn it around and make you the 'bad' guy for finding out the truth about them. And he did it, Your on the defensive about talking to the other two girls , " what is wrong with that??, when he was doing [ im sure much more than 'talking' . He doenst seem to be in a exclusive relationship with you, so guess you will have to get real about the situation. Sounds like hes playing everybody he can.
Hope you find a 'good guy"
2007-08-26 17:48:11 · answer #2 · answered by butterfly7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plenty more fish in the sea - get rid of him! He is definitely cheating if he says that.
Be strong, and know there is something else out there for you that is better suited.
2007-08-26 17:35:35 · answer #3 · answered by mhig002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget that guy!
He's just upset because he couldn't hide his cheating ways. There is no reason to put yourself through more bullshit than you already have. Enough is enough. Move on girl!
2007-08-26 17:38:30 · answer #4 · answered by LpYrBby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump this dumb a ss!!! i cant believe you are stil with someone you know is cheating andi cant believe even more that he is mad he got caught as a bad player...this guy has serious problems...you need a guy that loves you and only you and one that you have absolutely no doubts about...he is hard to find so let him come to you.
2007-08-26 17:38:08 · answer #5 · answered by chelz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has to be guilty about some thing. you need to ask him why he is behaving like this and say that you are the victim in this, and certainly don't deserve to have him fooling around.
2007-08-26 17:36:44 · answer #6 · answered by ihateyourpity21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
Don't worry about all the drama, just pick up and move on.
Who cares why...
2007-08-26 17:36:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes sounds like a dick get rid of him and get someone better
2007-08-26 17:36:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gril ! i wanna help you have to write that over
2007-08-26 17:38:41 · answer #9 · answered by lashay c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. u deserve better.
2007-08-26 17:44:41 · answer #10 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋