If you have doubts don't do it. Besides, relationships change as long as you would be okay with having that date on a very visible spot and him not around possibly (it could happen still) then go for it. I wouldn't do a name, not unless it's someone who has died or is not a spouse of some kind. You wouldn't want an exs name on you forever if it didnt ended well, a date would be easier to tell a story about. It's up to you though, do it legally and when you are sure. Having to ask means it's not right just yet.
2007-08-26 09:25:49
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answered by ~Les~ 6
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I would say no, and if you have to make ut where is should not show. Some day you may want a job and even tho they say they cant dicriminate on you having aTatoo believe me, they will not admit it but it happens. they can make a barrier that is hard to break thru when tring to climb the ladder to a better paying job. Also I happend to see a woman that had a Tatoo must have been 50 yrs ago she looked like she was 70..............UGGGGGGGLY. I think it is trashing looking. I have heard getting a name is bad too. what if he is killed? you have a constant reminder You will make your own decision and you will have to live with it but it is a strike against you in several ways
2007-08-26 09:45:34
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answered by littlerascal711 4
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It's kinda on the borderline for you if it's a serious relationship.... for me .. me and my significant other have been 2gether for almost 2 yrs now.. and i encorperated him into my new tat.. i'm getting dc on my back d for my name and c for his but then DC stands for my first and last name.. i mean its all up to you.. i want to get his name up my ribs in chinese lettering so i mean go with what you feel would be right. Everyone out there is going to tell you don't get it you guys are going to break up and what not. but i mean only you know how serious he is towards you, and what the future might hold for you two. So go with what you feel.. i agree with some of the members maybe the day on ur wrist with something encorperating it such as a chain or flowers.. something that you're into... if you do get his name same thing just go with what you like and represents you.
2007-08-29 10:17:44
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answered by dc49x3 2
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In my opinion NO you shouldn't. Not to sound pessimistic but, what if it doesn't last? Then you are stuck with this reminder of a lost first love. According to the date you gave you have only known this guy for less than a year. Do you think it is wise to brand him on yourself so soon. I thought my first love would be in my life for all eternity. Guess what I am happily married for 11 years to another man. I am glad I don't have something etched onto my body to remind me I almost didn't marry the man of my dreams, the true love of my life.
2007-08-26 09:24:33
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answered by Anonymous
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NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO
To both
UNLESS you get married, and even then, it isn't a great idea
It is such a horrible horrible idea to get a significant other's NAME inked on you, because nothing in life is guaranteed. I think it is great that y'all have been together almost a year. That's sweet.
Me and my man? We've been together 9.5 years. I didn't get my first tattoo until a year after we met-but his NAME? Not even now. Not even though we have two children together. The CLOSEST I have gotten to getting his name on me is his initials hidden in the wings of a butterfly that I designed inked on my left calf.
I probably still won't get his name on me after our 10th anniveraryish-we still aren't married.
2007-08-26 10:08:27
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answered by ? 6
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It worries me that you use the term "first" love. Maybe deep down you know there could be a second someday? If you get a name inked on you, it should be someone that you know will be with you emotionally forever. That's why the only name I have tattooed on me is my Grandma's.
2007-08-26 15:14:21
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answered by Olivia 1
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You haven't even known him a year. I remember when I was with my first love for that amount of time (still am with him) I thought it would last forever. I do realise now that things could change.
Just remember that things can change, and something may happen between you. Its your body so do what you want.
2007-08-27 00:28:04
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answered by sparkle 5
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You should get something else. Maybe two hearts or a heart the color of the month you met him.
So that if you guys break up one day you can just say "oh I just thought that heart was cute or those hearts are for my parents."
2007-08-26 14:18:45
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answered by Anonymous
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aww sounds really sweet. you both should get matching tatoos. But note that visible tatoos can make getting a job more difficult. And i'm not saying anything will happen between you two but you wouldn't want to regret something like a tatoo because it is very expensive to remove. It's your body do whatever you feel like
2007-08-26 09:24:07
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answered by Markie 1
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i do not think you wanted to get tattoo of his name. because it doesn't matter if you stay together or date you meet.
Never know what happen. if you guys been together for year.. and almost two years.
if you do get name it going to cost you to get off if something did happen and you guys broke up.
2007-08-26 12:46:02
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answered by babyg 4
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