OK..... there is this girl at my schoolwho i have been friends with ever since like 3rd grade....but on & off......because she can be a ******* *****!!!!!!
she has like only 5 friends now... but soo many ppl hate her.
i have a bf, and i think she is really jelious because im not mean to my friends and i dont tease her like everyone else....but now she is telling everyone she hates me!!! she is spreading rumors that are NOT true and make me sound AND feel like crap!!! i want to get her back SO bad!! this has been going on for like 2 weeks!! what should i do??????????
2007-08-26 09:02:40 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
beat her up.
2007-08-26 09:06:06 · answer #1 · answered by trick 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is a reason why everyone hates her. Do you think the people believe her since she only has 5 friends?? Maybe if your up to it you shold confront her about the rumors and why she is alone . Ask her if she would like it if you started a rumor or two about her. If that doesnt work then just ignore it. It will probably blow off in five days. Did you ever think she likes you more then a friend. Remember if you start a rumor you are as low as her.
2007-08-26 16:16:51 · answer #2 · answered by antabellam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off i would not be friends with this person, too much drama. second get her back by smiling and saying hi to her in the hallways that will piss her off. don't do anything other then that because you can get introuble by the school. hird confront her about the rumors tell her you dont appreciate it and walk off no more. fourth if someone comes up to you about these rumors CALMLY tell them they are not true don't loose your temper or it will become worse. otherwise ignore the rumors and everything will go back to normal in a week or so. If not go to a counsler as a last resort
2007-08-26 16:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by aleka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you shouldn't stoop to her level and do what she is doing to you. That just shows that you are as bad as she is. Just ignore the rumors and anyone who asks you anything about it, just tell them that she is jealous of you and that's why she is saying things that aren't true. Keep your REAL friends close and have them support you in this difficult time. The rumors and all the bad things that she is doing will pass. She will eventually lose interest and things will die down. Don't let her ruin your life. Don't act like a little kid, but instead show her that she can't get to you; that you can be more mature then her and you won't play her foolish games. Good luck.
** If she has a bad rep, then nobody will believe her in the first place.
2007-08-26 16:09:26 · answer #4 · answered by Dana Mulder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everytime someone repeats a rumour she has started just state the facts, oh she is so jealous. Or she should be so lucky.
anyways ignoring her and her stupid remarks and rumors will be the worst thing you can do to her she will hate it, honest. if you see her in the hallway go right by her and don't acknowledge her at all, if she begins to speak to you turn your head suddenly and wave and rush off as if you are meeting someone else, just refuse to have anything to do with her, and tell everyone you don't know her, or don't know her anymore, being that she is that unpopular no one really listens to her lies anymore I'm sure.
Yeah I would completly ignore her, pretend she has left the school you attend, stay away from anyone who associates with her or at least cool it with them for a while, if they are really friends they will come and ask you why, just state the fact that you don't trust someone they associate with and don't want to be drawn into anything.
Honesty.
2007-08-26 16:12:54 · answer #5 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been friends - on and off - since 3rd grade? Mostly off, I should think, judging by your description of her behaviour, and of her as an a*** h***!
Be adult about this. That'll show her up for what she is. It's the best way to "get back" without making you look as spiteful and petty as she is.
Ignore what she's saying, but make it clear to everyone including the ex-friend that she is not your friend at all. Then leave her to stew in her own juice and lie in the pit she'd digging for herself.
wimsey
2007-08-26 16:10:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This can be a hard time if you do certain things, first of all, don't be a *****, because that will just prove her point, if you don't do anything mean to ppl, she will look like a fool, as for the rumors, make it public when you ask her to stop telling fake rumors about you because of how they make you feel, that will put people on your side, plus make it known they are fake
2007-08-26 16:07:36 · answer #7 · answered by Marki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know what she is spreading is garbage then your true friends know it too. ppl will always find something bad to say about someone else to make themselves feel or look better. that person is usually the one with the real problems. Ignore the rumors and act as if nothing is wrong.Maybe your bf can set her up with one of his friends then see how quick the rumors stop.But plz dont stoop to her level and fight over trivial B.S.
2007-08-26 16:12:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't retaliate! That's what she wants..
I've had stupid rumours been spread about me, and sure it's really tough at first trying to convince everyone it's not true, and sadly it doesn;t always work. But in the end the rumour will just fade away, everyone will get bored and find something else to talk about.
Just stay clear of this girl, she sounds like a b****!
2007-08-26 16:07:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mai know ppl would say just to do the right thing or What ever. i kinda get your story but i wood [ im in eigth grade] just ignore her i really try to stay out of Drama with all those Girls at my School Say it Right in her face and just forget about it if she is spreading rumors and somone askes u about it just deny it . It'll amke that Girl Look REALLY Stupid.
2007-08-26 16:08:28 · answer #10 · answered by Gabby M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hehehe just make her more jealous. be extra sweet to your boyfriend when shes around. psychology 101. no amount of PAIN is greater than ENVY.
even if she dosent like the guy AT ALL... being sweet like that will drive her nuts.... and the mind numbing hatred will destroy her.
however she is destroying your reputation, dont worry she'l runout of things to say and start being monotonous. people will notice that.
then again she is your friend. and "IS STILL" your friend when your BF is not around.
play it both ways getting some sweet revenge and dont over do it.
2007-08-26 16:10:58 · answer #11 · answered by Erizu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋