How do I get out of this Relationship?

Question

I kind of met this guy off of the internet, and we met in person and we hit it off really well, but I dont know if he is the right person for me...he is really attractive, but he always

1.)Calls my house phone and cell(leaving a voice-mail each time)

2.)Says he loves me(even though we only knew each other 3weeks)

3.)Is really sensitive

4.)Always trying to buy me stuff

***This is not a kiddie relationship,because Im 18 and he is 23

Answer 1

Uh oh...let's hope a boiled bunny isn't in your future. You're just going to have to tell him to stop doing that stuff, and hope he's not the sensitive-stalker type.

Answer 2

Seems to me you don't really want to get out of the relationship but things are going too fast and you cannot trust him as he is way too intense for so early in the friendship.

Just tell him the truth, tell him to slow down and you take control of the friendship so that you can find out if it will work. If you really want out, then just tell him so and be kind enough to give him a truthful but not unkind reason.You can still remain friends if you want to.

Answer 3

ok first thing
if you want to stay with him
make shure you make it clear to him
that 3 weeks is too damn fast to be sayin i love you.
the rest of those things that you listed dont matter
the fact that he calls you and leaves a voicemail means that he cares and thinks about you alot.
and sensitive is not improtant
and buying you stuff. you should be happy haha

but well if you dont want nothing what so ever to do with the dude then simply dump him. and find another.

Answer 4

Tell him you need enough room to see for yourself if this can grow in a healthy way, but that the smothering and gift giving are too much. They might be appropriate at a different stage but right now they're giving you warning signs.

Answer 5

hmm, i would deffinetly back off from that asap. 1st off i dont think its safe at all. you have only known him not even a month and he is already emotionally attached? you cant 100% know you love someone that soon. the whole calling your house and cell all the time, uh ya, tell him to stop. or at least limit him to calling your cell phone. sounds like he constantly needs to know what your doing and where your at. i dont know... it just sounds a little sketchy to me. i'd deff sit back and reevaluate what your doing. good luck

Answer 6

You could be honest, or you could say that your parents dont approve. Like say, "I told my parents your were 19, but they found out you were 23 and are freaking out because they think you are a bad influence and to old. They also say that they dont want me to have a boyfriend who drinks.So we cant be together anymore, but it was fun right?"

yea that what i would do.

Answer 7

Just be distant from him, and eventually he'll catch on to your clues. Then when he ask u about why you'vve been so distant from him latley you just tell him u don't think you and him are right for each other and let him go. If he gets all obsessive and needy just stay away from him.

Answer 8

If you don't like his style - tell him. Act like an adult and expect that he should too. If he acts out (really sensitive) walk away. You already know he is not the one for you.

It sounds like he is not sure of himself and immature. Hopefully he grows up, but you don't need to be the one who guides him.

Answer 9

u are same-sex attracted right? im just guessing by ur avatar and the word "he".

i think you should jsut straight up say it.
hes way too old for you. he may jsut be wanting to get in ur pants.
say "this really isnt working out, ur too old, im not comfortable., we have to move on"

its the heartbreaking truth. tell it to him!

Answer 10

Those are all the things women do that piss guys off. So do what guys do, milk it for all its worth and then tell him its over.