There is this girls who i love but i dont know if she loves me but im sure she likes me... I've been chatting with her for about a week. At the beginning it was soo fun...When ever i appear online she directly chatts with me & we really enjoy it.. As days pass by...it takes time for her to answer me & our chatts are getting boring & now adays whenever she comes online...she stays for a while & then logs offline....i don't know why...why doesn't she want to chat with me ?? What sould i do ?? Should i just keep chatting with her ?? Plz help....
2007-08-26 06:00:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude i know what happened you must've said something to upset her. Apologize. yes if you love her.
2007-08-26 06:08:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love? Hmm. Don't delude yourself.
Don't sit by the computer and wait for something to happen that may or may not happen. Get outside and get some exercise. That's probably what she's doing. If she makes it back to her computer and goes online when you're online just say "Hi" and see if she responds. She may just log-in to check email when all of her messaging sites pop-up making you think she's online to chat.
While the computer has become a major part of many lives, the real outdoors still calls many of us.
2007-08-26 13:14:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anabanana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should reserve the word 'love ' for strong long lasting emotion. You say you love her, but have you stopped to think " what is it that I Love". One week seems a bit quick to me, especially when you have not met her physically. I am assuming that you have seen her photograph, and heard her voice.
Perhaps you have exhausted her interest and she is no longer interested in you. Perhaps you have come on too strong, she is not interested in that type of relationship, but she does not want to hurt your feelings by telling you, so she uses the option of ' unavailability.
Give her a break. Don't try to dominate her space. She may just discover that you are sweeter than she thought and return to you. Best of luck
2007-08-26 13:20:38 · answer #3 · answered by Jaman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love her???? You don't even know her. If she comes on, just say hi, if she takes a while to respond, maybe she is chatting with others and your box got lost in the shuffle. Don't keep typing to get her attention. She'll chat when she's ready. Wow I hope you didn't tell her you "love her".
2007-08-26 13:05:53 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to her again, and be honest with your feelings. In other words, tell her that you like her. She may like you too, you never know until you try. The worst that can happen is that she rejects you, and that's not so bad. At least you won't be wasting your time.
2007-08-26 13:06:17 · answer #5 · answered by michelle_x3s_you 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You met her a week ago,and your in love with her.You say anything you may run her off.Keep on talking and get to know each other more.
2007-08-26 13:06:56 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa (butterfly) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she could be starting to like someone else or isn't as interested in you anymore
or she could be playing chase to see if you really do like her.. be a little flirty and see how she responds, if its a boring / negative / unresponsive way... lost cause.
2007-08-26 13:06:35 · answer #7 · answered by ally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude how old are you? She doesnt speak to you and you ask yourself if she loves you? Get serious!!!. She doesn't seem to like you even.
2007-08-26 13:05:42 · answer #8 · answered by Pearl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she has liked you but not love
2007-08-26 13:04:15 · answer #9 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try o get her to like you more by chatting with her more i guess
2007-08-26 13:04:12 · answer #10 · answered by tie-tie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋