I feel like Im going to die..please help?

Question

I feel like im going to die, when im 16. Im 14 , and at our school about 5-6 motnhs ago, we had an assembly about columbine, and rachel scott, (one of the victims there) and how she said she was always going to end up dying young, and she did. Now I have this feeling that Im going to die when I turn 16. People always say that when people say they are going to die, or like tell someone they are going to die, they end up dying. I feel so scared and depressed. I dont want to die. I need help please. And Im afraid to tlk to my mom or dad because I dont know what theyre reaction will be, or if like that I did tell them, then I will die. Serious help please

Answer 1

You will live to be a very old person. In any case death is nothing to be scared of. Have you ever been watching TV or reading a book and come to a very exciting part and when you awake the program is finished or the book has fallen out of your hand. Death is something like that? We pass from one phase to the other without even being aware. Even deaths that look awful, are not, because we have a threshold of pain which we cannot go beyond.
Cheer up and live your life one day at a time and to the fullest. Death is only awful for those we leave behind, because they love us and miss us so, especially when we die young. Good luck.

Answer 2

When you were born into this life time you are ment to learn certain lessons that God has laid out just for you. You also could be here to teach someone else something or to influence people.

What ever your journey you will live it out until you have completed what you are here for.

I believe that when it is ones time to die that it just doesn't make any difference where your are or what you are doing. You will die. But not until you have completed you task for this life time.

I believe in devine order & if I am to die I will die.

Someone threated to shoot me & a couple of friends where really worried about it but not me. I told them that if I was meant to die by her hands then I would die by her hands. Well, I'm still here so I wasn't meant to die by her hands.

I used to be afraid to die but now I don't fear it cause I know that it is a far better place than what we have here on earth.

God has you life mapped out & you won't die any sooner than what he has planned.

Once I left all the churches & found the Pagan faith I have felt more alive than I ever have. They don't preach Hell & Damnation, they don't even believe in Hell or the Devil. The Devil is just a false profit. Not the image that most churches want you to believe.

Life is really worth your time. Live as if there were not a tomorrow & enjoy what you have around you now. You are not too young to investigate a new way of life with new outlooks & way of thinking. Look up Wicca, Pagan, Earth People, Goddesses & get some new thoughts going through your head. Open your eyes to a new way of life.

You have fears that, at your age, are completely unwarrented. Life is short but not that short. & just because one or two people you know feel that they are going to die young doesn't mean that you are going to. Watch you'll get to be 88 & these thoughts you have today are long forgotten.

You need to be at peace with yourself. You are a good person & have a lot to offer the rest of the world, your family & your friends & even people you don't know yet.

Answer 3

Everone will die one day.But Life is about living .
Living in the present ............here and now...............thats why we called it "Present"
so just watch your thoughts and learn to meditate you will be fine.
First of all start loving yourself for if you don’t, the who will.Be perfectly at ease with yourself and remember the others are just like you.Be sure of yourself, you are fine the way you are; and once in that mindset do what you have to.
Have you ever seen a rose trying to be a Lilly.If it ever tried it would end up being neither a rose nor a Lilly.A Rose can only be what it is and nothing else.
No two trees compete one another saying I am bigger than you.They are perfectly happy being , just being……….In nature just look around the whole existence is celebrationg, the birds,the bees,the trees,the wind, the sky n whole…………

Answer 4

Honey you can't let stuff like that bother you....I think that you should talk to your parents about that , I'm sure that your parents will understand....It could be just you being paranoid because you heard the story of Rachel Scott....I have had plenty of dreams about myself getting murdered or shot and whenever I did I wouldn't leave the house....This went on for about 2 years, until I talked to my mother about it...She told me that I shouldn't let those dreams interfere with my life (which it was)....We all have to die someday it's sad but true...you can't choose when you die but you can choose how to live your life....You can either stay depressed or you can live your life to it's fullest....It's your choice

Answer 5

Hey. I know exactly how you feel because I've been through this. I'm fifteen years old.I've always had the feeling that I was going to die extremely young. Some days I had feelings that I was going to die that exact day. Dying always seems scary, but it shouldn't be, because eventually it happens to all of us. And your feelings could be wrong, you just probably have these feelings because of what you heard. You shouldn't be depressed. You should live your life to the fullest and always be optimistic, good things should come to you. I wish you the best. Please don't be upset anymore. :[

Answer 6

Hi, I am a mom of a 15 year old girl. I would do anything to help her! I don't think your giving your parents a chance. They are there for you if you would let them in. I too went through bad depression at a young age and my mom figured it out and I'm so glad I had her to help me out. Parents were kids once to and you would be surprised at the things they went through and had to deal with. Talk to your family, they love you!

Answer 7

You were affected by the event of Columbine. That is understandable and no problem. But your fears wont let you live a relaxed and happy life whatever happens. Everyone is to die someday, and whenever it is your turn, enjoy your life, study, have friends, live with harmony and do nothing you would regret later.

Answer 8

You have to take the step of talking about it....and you really did good by doing it through yahoo answer.....the next step is to go to someone who actually live somewhere near you......if you are afraid then go to an anonymous person first....say a priest who does not know you....find a church that well the priest does not know and talk to him or her..........he or she will guide you.....see what he have to say maybe he knows about some group that you can go to that can help or a counselor etc....try this first and see how it goes.

Answer 9

you do need serius help.. why do you feel like you are going to die? do you feel depressed? try to fill your life up with happiness... if you are really scared of dying young, life your life to the fullest... eg: be more religious (if you have a religion) or maybe even spend more time with your loved ones.. maybe parents... tell them how much you love them etc. like some religion says, death is in the hands of god, you cant control it... cheer up babe... :)

Answer 10

You are displaying a form of anxiety. We all do this from time time - obsessing about one thing or another. You could tell your parents you are feeling very anxious and worrying about different things, things you cannot pin point and that you would like to see a therapist. Then you can share how you feel with the therapist who will then help you to deal with your feelings.