though im not interested in bad things like hindi movie videos and stuff but due to my friends i have yo talk about them sometimes so how can i be firm and determined and focus and not be swayed away by distractions?
2007-08-26 05:08:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Have more acquaintances and less friends, and be careful whom u make friends. Make friends with those who let u remain focused and relaxed, not those that distract u.
2007-08-27 20:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have choosen the friends who are not as per your thinking . You can't get what you want others to behave with you.
I would not suggest you to leave your friends because you have to except them as they are , if you are there true friend let you discuss wiht them that you want them to discuss something which endure the quality of head and heart.
One thing I would like to tell you that there is no harm in discussing the hindi move videos and stuff as young people enjoy discussing it, you also take part but when they cross the limit just stop them and leave saying I have some important work to do.
They will slowly and slowly understand you, give them the time to understand, You need not react but be a responder and stop them when you feel they are over crossing the limits.
It is very tough to find the friends as per your interest and liking , always there is liking for opposite nature people in your life.
Just be with them and no one can ever and never spoil you unless and until you want to get.
Confidence, Hope and trust will strengthen the relationship.
2007-08-27 18:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say NO!!!! If they are really your friends, they will accept you as you are. If not......time to find new friends, that have the same interests, and values that you do. Peer pressure is huge in today's world, but you don't have to fall for it. Dare to be yourself, and people will respect you for it in the end. You will also find out who your TRUE friends are. Good luck.
2007-08-26 05:19:30 · answer #3 · answered by CSmom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you ought to ignore approximately them. submit to in ideas the saying that its extra suited to be on my own than in undesirable employer. so circulate ur own way. yet once you circulate to a various type then u might no longer ought to coach into the chilly insensitive man or woman , u can carry close out with them. so i think of that u ought to circulate. do no longer make this an ego situation, its your existence here and in existence particularly situations u ought to make judgements that compromise ur self-delight yet they're for the stable. yet while its yet another situation like, you have not got suited interest in that 2d type,u ought to confer with the dean approximately your classmates formerly u get entangled in something fishy. meanwhile, stay unfastened and stay faraway from those rowdy young ones. stable success!
2016-10-17 00:59:19 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them if they are telling you to do something that goes against your core values. Tell them your do's and don'ts. No need to fight or to lose their friendship unless something very important as your own lifespan, quality of life, police record, personal honor is on thin ice.
2007-08-26 05:20:29 · answer #5 · answered by mbestevez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you have to do is you have to select good friends in the initial stage itself.why should you do things that you dont want......you do those things to satisfy others isit not....dont do that
live for yourself....dont live for others in certain cases...even if you are surrounded by guys whoes behaviours are not good and if you are forced to be their friends in certain instances just eschew from the things that you dont like...just adher to them with less affinity to their habbits or behaviours
and in future dont select friends with those things that you dont like...only you can save yourself
2007-08-26 05:19:00 · answer #6 · answered by kesi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do it know it and do it.
Put a distance between such people. Find new positive influence people and keep their company only.
2007-08-26 05:14:02 · answer #7 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave them alone &meet to friends at time u desire.
2007-08-27 04:57:43 · answer #8 · answered by rajporwal p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always think for yourself, do not let your friends make your decisions for you
2007-08-26 05:24:26 · answer #9 · answered by T Leeves 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get new friends.
simple.
2007-08-26 05:12:03 · answer #10 · answered by Kristy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋