Have u ever taken revenge on a cheating boyfriend?

Question

and if so what did you do?

I am asking out of curiousity.. I didnt say I wanted to take revenge on anyone! why do ppl always assume?

Just me, what an amazing story!

Answer 1

OMG YES! Actually I had no intention of taking EXTREME revenge but that's what it turned out to be!

I was dating this guy in college (I was a junior in high school.) He was very book smart but had very little "common sense." He broke up with me after a year together, informing me that there was someone else in college that he was interested in.

A week after we broke up he called me and told me that he wanted to get back together. He told me that he went out with this girl that week, took her back to his dorm room and she ended up walking out on him (but not before telling him that he didn't have a 'clue about what he was doing.') When I told him that I had NO interest in getting back with him he had the guts to ask me if my sister was single!!! "UH, NOOOOO!" And after this he had the guts to go further and ask if I had any single FRIENDS! I was totally offended and shocked. But not so shocked that I couldn't stop and think before responding. I told him I had a great friend who was single (she actually had about as much common sense as HE did) and I would hook them up. The important note here is that she was SO ugly!!!! I mean, like paper bag over the head ugly. And considering she had just broken into my locker and stole a few things from me this revenge seemed like killing two birds with one stone. So I set them up.

I completely thought my ex would go out to meet her and would call me a day or two later asking me what in the world I thought I was doing setting him up with someone that disgusting. But to my surprise he didn't call. In fact, according to the "friend" they were going out exclusively. Oh well...to each his own.

A few years later I was working and suddenly this man just "appears" in my shop. He had found out that I was getting a divorce and wanted to see if I was available. "UM, NOOOO!" He started telling me about his relationship with the friend I sat him up with many years before and I found that I did in fact get my revenge but it was WAY more than I ever would have ever anticipated.

He had actually MARRIED this girl...and he became an ordained minister. After a couple of years she started coming home late, not coming home at all, etc. (You know the drill.) He found out that she was cheating on him and he tried to work things out with her but she was done. She filed for divorce. The church he was a minister at did not approve of divorce so he was not permitted to preach anymore. And is if this isn't bad enough, they eventually asked him not to return to the church even as a member.

But it gets worse. This "friend" called him one day out of the blue and they reconciled. They eventually remarried. And a few months later it happened again. She was "tired of him" and they divorced again...he was crushed...once again.

A month after their divorce she came to him and told him that she was pregnant. She DID love him and now that they were going to have a family she wanted to work things out. He was overjoyed. The woman he loved and now a child????

Yes, they remarried. And this time the marriage was beautiful. He went to every doctor's appointment and they were very very happy. I shudder at this next part...because as a 16 year old girl I would have never anticipated that I would perhaps have had a part in something this horrible...but the day came and they baby was being delivered...and yes, you probably already know the next part. At the point that the doctor was supposed to say "It's a boy!" he instead says "We need the husband to leave the room...now." My ex...the new daddy...looks down to see what could be wrong and why the doctor was saying this and that is when he found himself looking down at a baby of mixed race. He filed for divorce again 2 days later.

I feel horrible for my part in this now. I mean, this is NOT what I intended to have happen and I feel horrible for the guy...but it just goes to show you that one little act can change your entire life. Had he not been so stupid to call me and ask the girl that he had just cheated on if she had a friend who was single none of this would have happened.

There is a common saying among my current friends. "Do NOT cheat on this woman. Her revenge is far greater than you would ever want to wish upon yourself." Or anyone else for that matter.

Answer 2

Taking the high road is the best option but if your really want to get some pay back here are a few ideas that i have had done to me.
I had a girlfriend that got mad at me but i didn't know it and she was giving me a great BJ like never before and when i was finished she spit it all over my face that was not too cool.

I once had a girl go and get with my best friend and that only sorta mad me mad i was happier that my friend got a piece after a few days of anger.

I had a girl slash my tires and smash out my windows but i got that last laugh and had her arrested.

I had a girl start a roomer that i was a homo and she had gay porn sent to me while i was in the Army that was funny looking back on it now but it was not fun talk to the higher ups.

But truth be told the best way is to move on you know he is already and maybe that's what you should think about doing too just chalk it up as a lesson in life.


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Answer 3

I wouldn't call it *revenge*, necessarily...I did my research, and found out who she was. I was able to set things up to where I could strike up a conversation with her one day, and we kindof became friends. One day, we started talking about our 'boyfriends', and I whipped out a photograph of him and I to show her. Imagine my surprise when she gasped, "THAT'S MY BOYFRIEND!" Then we both agreed on what a dirty rotten louse he was, and we decided to teach him a lesson. She made plans to have lunch with him at his job, and on the same day, I showed up with a nice home-cooked meal to surprise him...Just because I loooved him! (Heheh!) Then her and I 'recognized' eachother, and acted so surprised to see eachother there. We played it off like we had been friends all this time, and we had JUST discovered that we were both seeing the same guy. He was in such a state of panic, I think he almost passed-out! Of course we BOTH dumped him! It was well worth it to see the look on his face!

By the way; her and I are still good friends to this day, and yes, I did eventually tell her that our first meeting was not by chance.

Answer 4

Not a cheating boyfriend but cheating ex husband. It took me months to finally figure out what was going on. I remembered he was allergic th a certain washing powder so I washed his work clothes in them and when he put it on he did not notice and went to work. When he got back he was covered with a horrible rash. I pretended I was not aware of how he could have got this rash even though i wanted to laugh so much.

Answer 5

Of course...I left him.

There are many ways to take revenge but the best revenge of all is to leave him feeling sorry he lost you and can never get you back, moving on and finding a real man.

Answer 6

I have, I was dateing this guy for 3 years. 1 year into it I decided to lose my virginity to this guy. Turns out he had been cheating on me with "Skank Girl" and it was very hurtful, and to add insult to injury he lied to me about it all the way up until the day I lost my virginity to him. So when he told me the truth after-words I decided to stick around and cheat back. I cheated on him with all 3 of his Best Friends and told him about each one the day after. Now I regret ever doing that, sure I made him cry...but what does that say about me? You know? I was acting like "Skank Girl" myself and I was letting guys go there with me..guys that didn't mean anything to me just to prove a point...and it was just wrong. So if you want to get even don't hurt yourself like I did by doing it. I was young and stupid. If you want to get even break up with him....and completely ignore his as*. Oh and smile alot so he knows you're fine without him. Don't ever get with him for the rest of your life and let him really know what a good thing he f*cked up! Don't be the dumb bimbo girl that sticks around with a guy like that...because that will really make him get a big head and even more of a reason to do it again to you. Don't let some cheating asshole get to the better of you. Have more respect for yourself. You just have to put in your head that he doesn't deserve you. Don't let him lower your confidence because cheating A*sholes like that end up being lonely and miserable little men in life anyways. I know the guy I dated 6 years ago is. ha ha ( in a weird way I feel bad for the loser though). Um but really if you ever get sad because he's with another girl, don't ever be jealous of her, pity her, atleast you're not the one getting cheated on. Good-Luck Hun.

Answer 7

I bought some of that wedding marker paint, that you use to write "newlyweds" and whatever on a new couple's car window (got it at walmart) and I wrote CHEATER on all of his car windows, as well as his cell phone number.

I also one time printed out about 50 flyers and wrote the details on it, along with his cell phone number, and left them on the windshields of all the cars in his work parking lot. He got lots of hate back from that, and quit the place in a couple of weeks.

I can take someone telling me "I do not want to be with you" anymore. I can't take spineless cheaters.

Answer 8

ive never had a boyfriend cheat but im grown up enough not to seek revenge

Answer 9

I found out mine was cheating, unequivocal proof, and that night I ambushed him. Met him at the door with a steak dinner, his favorite potato, and his favorite beer nicely chilled. He ate, and then I very calmly asked him a few questions. He'd never been scared of me before that. Dunno why it set him off, but that's all it took.

Answer 10

not really hhhmmm. I log on his mailbox & erase all his emails, change his password then make the other girl thinks that he still loves me & we're still together & make her think that he cheated on her. She was really sad though. Im happy with what I've done!

Answer 11

Revenge just isn't worth the effort and the continuation of your pain. Best course is just move on. You will be happier that way.