Why would this girl at my gym act like this?

Question

she's iranian and i'm asian so we had some differeces bordering on racial.Our incidents were fairly harsh,but anyway,she continues to push to get my attention,gazes at me at times,and will try to be near me on some instances.All i know is that i apoligized for my behavior(with the way i treated her as a woman)and she said no worries and accerpted,but why is she acting the way she's acting?I kep thinking of her as a backstabbing muslim,because of our previousincidents.

Answer 1

She likes you dude. Get the ball rolling or gtfo. lol.

Answer 2

"Is there another motive here?

This girl from my gym whom i had harsh confrontations with that bordered on racial(her being iranian and me being asian)will gaze at me from a distance,try to get my attention,pass my way etc.....I only had 1 good conversstion with her a couple months ago,where i pretty much restrained myself from knocking her out was polite respectful a gentlemen blah blah....After that( a month later)we ignored each other but she still tried to get my attention after awhile and i just didn't respond because i didn't trust her and am still peeved about past incidents.(our incidents again bordered on racila) Does she have another motive(it IS losangeles by the way)or is there another reason for her behavior? "

"Why is this girl acting like this?

This girl from my gym who i've had problems with and vice versa continues to look at me when i'm not looking,gaze at me from a distance,try to get my attention and get mad when i don't give her attention.She also seems toi want to converse with me,although our conversations end up being short. "

This feels like deja vu all over again.

Answer 3

Go up to her and tell you that you are feeling as though you are being judged and you'd really like to discuss any issues she might have with you. Tell you that you feel there might be cultural differences that you are not understanding and to please let you know if you are doing anything to offend her.

Take the onus upon yourself, don't point fingers. If you tell her that she's doing something to you, you not only attack but you could very well be offensive yourself; especially if you are truly mistaking her intent.

Answer 4

I'm not sure of what you're asking, but I encourage you to remain a gentleman and try not to pass judgement. And if there's tension between the two of you, just keep your distance. Eventually, she'll get tired of playing games. But as long as she knows she's "getting to you," she probably is going to continue. Kind of like being a regular on R&S--there are people on here who, when they know they are "pushing your buttons," they get a thrill out of it and try to be as outrageous as possible.

And if you're interested in her, then ask her out on an Islamically-acceptable date (somewhere public, like a restaurant).

Answer 5

Sounds like she is interested in you, hopefully in the the usual boy-girl way. Invite her to talk over a Gatorade (or her rehydration of choice) and see where it leads.

Answer 6

see i'm totally confuse.if a girl want to talk any guy they just grab the chances but you .you are thinking what to do.go..go..go..and talk to her and make are a friend.
or
may be she dont have any asian friend so she is interested in it
so go a head and grab her

Answer 7

Sounds like love to me

Answer 8

Sounds like the girl likes you, but you are too uptight and can't see through your own 'backstabbing" discrimination and subordinate treatment of women.

Answer 9

Talk to her......I have been reading back through days of questions and answers.....haven't you posted this question 6 times already?

Answer 10

Wewn't you happy with the answers you got the last time you asked this question?

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