ive was dating a guy 7wks when i found a strange msg in his phone, saying ''sorry for calling so many times i thought u'd let me no wot u were up to'' i confronted him and he said it was just a friend so i dropped as he seemed geniune and done soo much for me. about 5weeks ago we were about to put an offer in on a house and my gut was tellin me somethin was wrong so i asked to see his phone bills and found he had been calling her quite a bit over a 3wk period tho it appeared to stop the date that i confronted him i got him to show me his emails and found he had emailed her sayin how nice it was to talk to her he was fond of her and how he would like to go for drinks,cuddle up and see wot happens. this girl lives in england and he lives in n.ireland, he is a pilot and would be in london twice a month but when he is he phones me every hour r so. he says he had no intentions of cheatin but did ask her if he was in london would she meet up. any guys u'stand this/ girls experienced this
2007-08-26 01:13:28 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For a sailor, it used to be called "A girl in every port". C'mon, use your head!
2007-08-26 01:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by claudiacake 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you have a cheating toerag of a b/f there, if he hasn't already how do you know you can trust and that he won't cheat soon, after all it might not be just this one girl.
I would suggest dumping the jerk, it sounds like I wouldn't trust him and it will end up with you getting hurt either physically or emotionally if not both.
Good Luck in whatever you decide
2007-08-26 02:18:01 · answer #2 · answered by Tom M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He seems like a nice guy to stop calling her when you told him to. But then again.. if his fond of her.. are you sure this girl isn't gonna take him from you? You should talk to him. Tell him to tell you the truth because there is no point in going on with the relationship if his mind isn't only focused on you. There is no relationship without honesty. Good luck.
2007-08-26 01:19:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't ever play second fiddle to anyone. You will only experience hurt. Just remember that there is someone out there who will be madly, passionately and genuinely in love with you and will be willing to be 100% devoted to you. It sounds impossible but it will come! I believe in loyalty to others and to yourself... so to the right person who deserves our old-school type of thinking, lucky them!!! If you never find this loyal person who deserves you...it will be so much fun trying! ooh, yea!
2007-08-26 01:30:28 · answer #4 · answered by cat lyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has already cheated by flirting behind your back. He is not to be trusted. Not at all. He has no self control. Even if she is chasing him, he is showing no loyalty to you. Not that you sound like you would take any advice, because this should all seem obvious to you, yet you are asking us still.
2007-08-26 01:21:15 · answer #5 · answered by wemblania 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this but it is definitely dodgy and suspicious the whole thing, especially the cuddle bit, and the fact he can easily get away on his job, I think you should drop him, because if he isn't cheating it will lead to that.
2007-08-26 01:19:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The real question is do you trust him or do you think your suspicions have substance.
If you trust him then you wouldn't post a question.
Are you not sure, then wait and see but don't commit to buying a house yet.
If you think he's lying wave him goodbye.
2007-08-26 01:32:49 · answer #7 · answered by Vogon Poet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a bit sus to me. Get rid. If he is doing this now, whats he going to be getting up to a year down the line.
2007-08-26 01:21:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-08-27 07:10:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry it depends on the type of e-mail/phone call
2007-08-26 02:04:35 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋