We broke up a few months ago... well kind of, we've had moments where we've been 'more than friends' since then.
She ended it, and we still loved each other, but it was because of her parents, who are basically running her life, (they didnt know about us).
Anyway, shes totally messing me around. I know this sounds really evil, but i think the only way im going to be able to move on is if i get revenge.
Im still totally in love with her, but im being treated like a piece of **** right now.
We were together 9months, and there were times during our relationship i was so dependant on her i was getting panic attacks when we argued, or when she didnt text for a few days.
Dont tell me to move on, or dont sink to that level, because i really want to!
2007-08-25 23:51:02 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Best revenge is to show that ur having a great time without her and moved on with ur life. U dont miss her, u dont want her. One day if u bump into her, say if ur in a club or pub. Be all nicely dressed, out with mates and girls and let her see how much fun ur having without her. Thats the best revenge. About other twisted revenges u might be thinking about doing, it will only be hurting urself. Trust me! Best of luck
2007-08-26 00:21:37 · answer #1 · answered by wondergirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 19:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by Darrin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you grow up & realize that everything does not always go your way, you'll be a better person for it. Ok, so I won't tell you to move on, neither will I say don't sink....As long as you continue to be evil minded, and want to tear up everything in your path cuz you can't get your way, you're gonna have a hard life buddy! You got a lot of built-up anger & need a release, work it out...MAN UP. Retaliation ain't always the answer. So what, she's under her parents thumb, well, if you're as spoiled and evil as you appear, she's better off listening to them. You'll only hurt her (emotionally) later on. So quit having your temper tantrums and leave her alone til you grow up little boy.
2007-08-26 00:04:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is pretty sad that you want revenge if you say that you still love her. Wouldn't that hurt you as well? If you hurt the one you are in love with that will hurt you too.
If I was you I would instead of revenge (that will not give any good solution because revenge is not going to take her out of your mind anyway!) I would try to help myself in any possible way to get that miserable lover out of my life and head. I think it would really help you to read the book: "How to Fall out of Love: How to Free Yourself of Love That Hurts--and Find the Love That Heals by Dr. Debora Phillips , Robert Judd. In that book you get self healp to find a way out of the misery a bad love put you in.
I really feel for you and hope with all my heart that you get up to the sun ligth and fresh air of life and eave behind you the pain. Good luck to you!
2007-08-26 00:04:07 · answer #4 · answered by M. V 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really think you should accept that this is never going to be.
If you really loved this girl why do you want to hurt her? Just see this episode as a learning curve and never let yourself become so dependent again. Loosing someone we love hurts like hell but like everything else time heals. You are broken hearted but when the right girl comes along your heart will soon heal, then you will wonder what the hell you saw in this juvenile girl.
2007-08-26 00:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by JoJo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to love yourself more. Taking revenge will only hurt both of you and make your relationship getting worst.
Should ignore her for a while, she'll be curious what you're doing and may turn around to text you everyday.
2007-08-26 00:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm you could subscribe your ex to all sorts of weird sex magazines but send them to her neighbor's..
idk just telling her that she never meant much to you during the relationship is enough revenge in itself.
my gf broke up with me recently and she told me it was because it was just not the right time and then 2 weeks later i find out that during the last part of our relationship she cheated on me basically and right after she broke up she hooked up with the other guy and now they are together. It hurt me...like it hurt me soo much emotionally that it hurt physically almost like heart ache im still heartbroken but more pissed off now
2007-08-28 15:59:01 · answer #7 · answered by Clint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do not think this way. If you love her dont ever think of hurting her or seeking revenge from her, its not worth it. Keep the good memory and dont ruin even that. You are a good man, you will be fine just try to control your temper now and you will see the results later. Don't make her hate you!
2007-08-26 00:05:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether you want to or not. Don't. You will be forever eaten up by revenge and bad thoughts and will never be able to move on.Love hurts. Some people hurt others and others get hurt. For your health and sanity MOVE ON.
2007-08-26 00:02:22 · answer #9 · answered by weasel bat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be really young, because there is no way you can possibly even know a person well enough to love them that much. Suck it up, be a man and leave the puppy love and childish shenanigans behind.
2007-08-26 00:13:36 · answer #10 · answered by mudcreekfarmer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋