We've tried a **** load of things that would probably make me 'finish' but I just get bored in the middle of the action cuz it doesnt feel anything 'Woah!' I just start thinking about how the situation really sucks. Im starting to lust after other guys but not in an emotionally way. I love my bf but my stupid biology is ******* me up!!
2007-08-25 20:25:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no hope unless he is improving, why don't you try to help him improve his .... you know
2007-08-25 20:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by arcanis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love your boyfriend, then you will tell him immediately that you are sexually unsatisfied and that it is causing you to have these lustful thoughts about other guys.
By your telling him, he has no right to get upset or angry because if you were considering acting out on those thoughts, would you really tell him about them?
I very seriously doubt that you would!
Once you tell him, the two of you can either make the decision to take some kind of joint counseling or sexual therapy classes together, or either of you can decide that it would be best to go your own ways for now.
Note that I said for now.
Just because you go your own ways doesn't mean that you can never get back together.
After all, absence makes the heart grow fonder and maybe you will both have a greater appreciation of the other when what you do have now is gone!!!
2007-08-25 20:41:01 · answer #2 · answered by runninfool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know people hate to admit this but sex is a huge part of a relationship. The thing is u love him but ur not in love with him anymore. If you have done all u can do and nothing works wuts the point of waisting ur life not being satisfied. Be honest with him and let him know whats up.No need to feel guilty becuase you are being honest with him. Maybe its time for you to move on....
2007-08-25 20:34:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you see, from a psychologists point of view i would stick with your boyfriend and just sexually satisfy other men and your needs during the day when your bf is at work that way he wont know and you will be happy.
2007-08-25 20:35:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual satisfaction is more in your mind then in your body. It's not your biology messing you up, it's your mind telling you that you know this is not the right guy for you. That's what dating is for, to find out if you are compatible in all aspects of a relationship. Unfortunately, this is not the right guy for you and you should move on, not just for you, but for him also. He deserves to have a woman who is there with him in all ways and you should give him that chance and stop wasting time in a relationship that will noly lead to your cheating on him and all the guilt and betrayal that will come from it. Move on and maintain yours and his self respect. It hurts, but it's the right thing to do.
2007-08-25 20:36:21 · answer #5 · answered by StaticTrap 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
BREAK UP WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND - that way no one gets hurt when you start sleeping around - - you do not love your bf if the intimacy sucks - if you loved him, you would do WHATEVER it takes to put the spark where it belongs.
2007-08-25 20:38:08 · answer #6 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm....tough. There are ways to make satisfy eachother. Just explore the internet. I'm sure you'll find some things.
2007-08-25 20:34:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous is my name...lol! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hi onoko-chan,
love doesn't really need sex.
if u really love to have sex there r many people ready to have with u.but the lover never need u for sex sex is a part of the love ...
so try to put a side or let try masterbation but dont feel bad about the sex....
2007-08-25 21:57:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think it would be different with another guy? If you figure that out, maybe you'll have an idea on how to fix it with this guy.
2007-08-25 20:35:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what i do i go out and sleep with a new man every week my bf doesn't know about it and he never will.. I'm satisfied.. or you can ask him for a threesome
2007-08-25 20:40:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't love him. Don't even try. Don't say the word when you have no idea of the meaning. If you love him, you wouldn't think of those bullcraps, and love can happen and can go on without having sex for your entirelife. Dumbass.
2007-08-25 20:40:15 · answer #11 · answered by skipper 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋