Recently my ex and I have started up a friendship with the intent to slowly progress it back into a relationship. I had hurt him with our previous break up and he is frightened that I would hurt him again so he was going through a tough time deciding whether or not to be in a relationship with me again. He decided he wanted to and now we're working on it. However, before we began this he was involved with another woman. He claims the woman and him are just friends but had had a close relationships as she has stayed the night at his house, they went places together, kissed, etc. This was part of his reluctant to start back up a relationship with me because he didn't want to hurt the girl. Recently though he told me he cut it off, but when we were together he had a call and rushed outside to talk making me a bit suspecious.
So my question is, is the thing between them really over? Should I trust what he says?
2007-08-25 18:49:33 · 5 answers · asked by Sabure 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think right now he's torn between the two of you. He still cares for you but isn't sure if you might break up with him yet again. I think he cares for the other girl also and doesn't want to hurt her like he's been hurt. I'd say he has feelings for both of you and needs time to sort this out. Give him the space he needs. You owe him that much for breaking up with him in the first place. Treat him with tenderness if you want to win him back. It need not be over if you show him you truly care.
2007-09-02 15:43:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love the second time around is very tough most especially if you still have doubts. Open this up to him so that he will know what you are feeling in order to erase your doubts build your trust.without it, its useless to start and be hurt again. Trust strengthens relationship, doubts destroys it slowly.
2007-09-02 23:49:05 · answer #2 · answered by Ferdi09066589275 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does not sound that way at all. Just let things happen, but firmly say to him. You want to be with him again and tell him that you are serious about him and only want to be with him.. Tell him that you don't mind him calling other girls (you don't want to come across as obsessive so let him know he can have friends but only as friends but think about that before you say yes to having him having a girl as a "girl---friend"). Tell him he needs to make it clear that he is with you in a exclusive committed relantionship.
2007-09-02 22:46:37 · answer #3 · answered by Cath 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's playing you both - a player feels he should have his cake and eat it, too - do you want to be one of the played? don not let him play you
2007-09-02 23:47:07 · answer #4 · answered by Big Buddy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave him.
if one goes millions will come in our life.
2007-08-26 01:59:04 · answer #5 · answered by pra d 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋