my brother got into a talking argumant about who knows what with this kid in the first week of school(someone he knew from last year) well i guess it got really bad and he was gonna get his a** kicked so he told the kid if the dident do anything to him then I would have SEX with him. on FRIDAY. (he told me tonight) i said no and he said i have to. i kept telling him no and stuff (im a virgin and only 15 going on 16 my bro's 16 going on 17 and so is the kid) and he said he's gonna make me do it with the kid he doesent care what i want. what should i do??? i dont even know the kid and i dont want to do it. and i dont know if my parents would do anything but say no to him which he would still make me.
2007-08-25 16:45:14 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's so messed up. Even as your brother he does not respect you. If he did he wouldn't even put you in that situation. Seems like he's the one who got himself into that mess. He deserves to get his *** kicked. Especially if he would do that to you. That's sick and wrong. Tell your parents, show them your concern about the situation - they should understand if you let them know how crazy the situation is getting.
2007-08-25 16:52:07 · answer #1 · answered by TegLover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE YOUR OWN PERSON! You don't have to listen to your "older" brother. And you shouldn't either, after what he's done. Tell your parents, and possibly authorities. This is the equal to prostitution, which is ILLEGAL. Don't feel pressured to give away something as precious to you as your virginity!
And tell your parents anyway! MAKE them undertand that this is real, and it's not going to go away. Don't include your brother in the conversation between you and your parents, because he'll interfere and deny everything.
2007-08-25 16:53:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO ONE, NO ONE should be able to make you have sex. That is rape. Tell your parents/guardian what you brother plans, or a trusted adult. Do whatever it takes not to be home and not to let you brother know where you will be when the time comes for this friend to have sex with you. Your virginity is something very precious, and it is to be your choice as to whom you give it to! Please tell someone that can help you and prevent this from happening!!!
2007-08-25 16:50:53 · answer #3 · answered by gorgeous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can make you do anything that you don't want to. First, tell your parents. If they don't do anything about it, call a friend and ask if you can stay over for a night or two. If the problem still persists, tell your school teacher/principal, get people of authority involved.
2007-08-25 16:50:01 · answer #4 · answered by Irene \m/. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell ur parents. Tell ur school officials, tell the cops. UR brother can;t make u do anything, and if that guy rapes u, then he can go to jail. Tell all the adults u can, and see what they can do. Good luck.
2007-08-25 16:50:57 · answer #5 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really sad if your parents wouldn't take this seriously. I would tell anyone who would listen. Talk to your parents, a school counselor, teachers, principal, etc. There are lots of people who are in the school system to protect you. Use them!
2007-08-25 16:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by rebecca f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your brother that you are not a piece of meat for sale and what he is trying to do is worth 10 years in the federal jail system. If not tell your parents . he has to be stopped . not just for you but for himself "the sleeze"
2007-08-25 16:51:05 · answer #7 · answered by tim g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a big no dont do it. tell your parents what your brother has done an let them handle it. if that doesnt work tell your brother to take his behind kicking and leave you alone. tell the other charicter if he touches you he can exspect the police to pay him a visit for child molesting. once again tell him no.
2007-08-25 16:59:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your parents and the cops and tell that other kid to kick his a ss for you, buy him a bat or something to make sure
then he will have a few more people kicking his butt and he will deserve it, being beaten within inches of his life even
If I was your dad and I heard that, I would personally kick his butt and then invite that other kid to do the same.
2007-08-25 16:53:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him that it is his problem because you had nothing to do with it and you should not go around have sex with ppl you dont even know.come on know is your brother crazy or what well if i was you i would let my brother get his a** kicked so he would learn for next time
2007-08-25 16:53:23 · answer #10 · answered by dd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋