I found some one that i could be my self with and it scared me.I pushed them away and now i dont care anymore and it is affecting my health and the way i feel what should i do is there any hope?
2007-08-25 16:36:01 · 4 answers · asked by paye 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
You dont care anymore about the situation or you dont care anymore about yourself because you are sad about losing the relationship? I was in a 4 year relationship with a guy I was so in love with that I believe it was unhealthy. When we broke up, I went kinda crazy....literally....I became numb and really didnt give a crap about myself anymore. I became careless. I partied all the time and made some really bad decisions. So if thats what you are talking about then yeah.
2007-08-25 16:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"....I pushed them away and now i dont care anymore and it is affecting my health and the way i feel ......."
slight contradiction here.
If you truly "did not care", it would have absolutely no effect on your health.
Could you possibly mean that first you "liked" a person and now it has turned to a "dislike". Are you stating that you are bothered by the change in your feelings???
No, you can't love a person "too much" and "when it is over"........this is incongruent. A true love lasts a lifetime.
The best definitian I ever heard for LOVE = To Care.
2007-08-25 17:00:03 · answer #2 · answered by Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not love that is feeling guilty. You seem to be thinking of yourself maybe if you think of what you did to the other person for a while and get over the self pity and say you are sorry to this person, maybe you could start caring again.
2007-08-25 16:48:24 · answer #3 · answered by saturn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/TheOpenDoorForsupport/
2007-08-25 16:49:41 · answer #4 · answered by LACY LYNN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋