About a month ago I found out my baby's father has a another child. Get this tho. My daughter is now 4 months and his son is 5 months. Aint that some shi! It just pisses me off. Anyways, I didn't know the bastard was sleeping around like that. My thing is that the girl states that he was there when she delievered and everything. He claims he was in another state when I told him that I had delievered. (I was pissed off at him during my pregnancy so I didn't talk to him until after I had the baby.) He states to me that he knows for a fact that, that kid is his. His *** is not claiming my child, but hasn't totally not claimed her. He tells me his family history and stuff. When I ask realated to the baby. Why is he telling me this stuff if he may be doubting the baby? He tells me if I need anything just let him know. But that isn't the same. What should I do? The girl claims that his parent's know about her son. But they dont know about my daughter. Should I call them up?They should know!
2007-08-25 15:52:42 · 6 answers · asked by Red 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I have known him for almost 5 years. I just never bothered about meeting his folks. We were just friends. We talked about me going up with him at one point in time, when we were serious. But then I just wanted to be friends at the time. With benefits...
2007-08-25 17:46:28 · update #1
I told him that I would call them soon. And he doesn't believe me or doesn't believe they have to know. But I do believe they should know because they are her grandparent's. I am giving him some time. But I dont know how much time I will be giving him.
2007-08-25 17:59:45 · update #2
Tell them anonymously. Write a letter or call them and have someone else tell them to talk to their sons girlfriend and that she may have a child just don't let them know it was planned or that's it's you(talking about the communication) and let them come to you. It they care they'll call or come.
2007-08-25 17:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by ~Love...Peace...Happiness~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should spend your time and energy looking for a new partner to love you and your new baby. Stop wasting your time on a dead beat Dad, that will probably never change, or if he does , I doubt it is in the near future.
2007-08-25 23:09:26 · answer #2 · answered by Kenny K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you should be on the Maury Povich show.
2007-08-26 00:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by Ella727 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry but men are just assholes. It is best to just let it be and that way your daughter won't suffer later due to his behavior.
2007-08-25 23:12:02 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Dominguez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah-stay out of it all. Deal with only him when it concerns your child with him. Other then that there is nothing that you can do.
2007-08-25 23:10:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny sounds like you were his fling. you werent his girl get a child support order and be done with him.
2007-08-25 23:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋