Hi everyone i'm a young christian and I obey the Lord at all times my only problem is my relationship with my family. Everythings cool with my mom, sisters, and brother but my aunts are phony and I do want to reach out to them but don't know how. I'm here in South Carolina and their from Philly so they think we're not up to their "speed" so to speak its just that i don't wanna kiss their butts cause i'm a real young woman so i'ma speak my mind I just don't want to cause conflict. I invited my aunt ova to our cookout earlier but she didn't show up or even call to say she couldn't make it or nothin' and i've done nothin' to her. She sends me funny and inspirational e-cards and i send her some too but what is the problem cause sometimes I think its me. Hope I can get some positive responses on this maybe some bible passages to read on family. God Bless.
2007-08-25 14:32:24 · 10 answers · asked by Caryn B 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I think it is awesome that you are trying to reach out to your family. Beating them over the head with a Bible however, (not saying that you are doing that lol) will just turn them away. PRAYER HAS POWER!!!! I am telling the truth when i say that I have seen lives changed and miracles done when people pray. It is amazing what God can do with a willing heart and faithful servent. Just constantly ask God to touch them in their hearts with His love and kindness. He careted the Heavens and Earth and did so much more than that, dont you think he can change someones heart. Just believe, have faith, and pray. God will take care of everything. Just give it all to Him and watch him work in your family's lives. God Bless!!
2007-08-25 14:43:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a Christian perspective, I'd say stop trying to "reach out" to your aunts. That's not what God asked you to do. Jesus said be a witness to them, tell them the good news. That's it.
If you want to make the absolute most powerful witness you can to your aunts, let them see Jesus in your life and see how it has changed you. You don't have to whack them over the head with the gospel every time you see them; sometimes a hug and a friendly smile does more than any word can. That is the power of love ... love them and let God do the rest :)
2007-08-25 21:47:33 · answer #2 · answered by arewethereyet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the bible Jesus said " Love others as you would youreself." He also said " If someone takes from you do not ask for it back. If somebody slaps you on the cheek give them the other cheek." Jesus was a great example of love. He loves us although we may sin against him. Love your neighbor although they may hate you. If they dont like you and dont treat you with respect its on her account but you follow Jesus. Did Jesus hate the soldiers that crucified him? No he showed love and he could have thrown fire that concumed everybody on earth, but he is a merciful God. So why should you not try to be like Jesus? Show love and forgive your neighbors just like Jesus Christ has forgiven you! Your relative will start seeing the change in you. Jesus Christ has a big reward for the people who trust him, follow him, and for the ones who try to please him and be like him.
2007-08-25 21:48:46 · answer #3 · answered by Scientist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a book called 'What does the Bible REALLY teach?' and one of the chapters is entitled 'How to make your family life happy' It has scriptures cited in the paragraphs that can help you with this topic. You can get the book (which is free)at any Kindom hall of Jehovahs Wittnessess. Hope this helps.
2007-08-25 21:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by Muse-ical 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep your faith. Know who you are, and why. Continue to reach out. They either will or will not grab your hand. Do not be offended. Live so there is no blood on your hands. The Lord will guide you through, without fail.
2007-08-25 21:42:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you relocate to the Family & Relationships section. All you'll get from here is a bunch of cold comments. I would give you a real answer, but frankly I don't understand the question at all. Reword and relocate. Sounds like a plan.
2007-08-25 21:38:53 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel the Atheist 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
love one another,Christ gave us this command. Pray for those who 'hate' you. don't try to understand/ just love one another. [song]
a quiet answer turns away wrath
one of the fruits of the spirit is self-control and control of the tongue.
pray for God to lead you.
2007-08-25 21:43:51 · answer #7 · answered by winkcat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relatives have lived longer so they think they're smarter. Pray for them and live a consistent Christian life in front of them, love them and be patient. You can bet they're watching you.
2007-08-25 21:43:13 · answer #8 · answered by Paulie D 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can not win and beating the drum with the Bible will not help. Stand back and see what happens.
2007-08-25 21:36:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about them, God instructs you to HATE your family anyway, so just start now... don't believe me??
Luke 14:26
"If anyone comes to me and does not hate his father and mother, his wife and children, his brothers and sisters—yes, even his own life—he cannot be my disciple."
2007-08-25 21:37:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋