im 14 and my name is carla.
i dont know what to do anymore
i think the only solution is death...but im to much of a coward to even do that.
today they were dyin my hair blonde so they had to bleach it and i couldnt stand the pain and i started cryin....and that just made me feel like such a stupid coward..and my parents were sayin how i could never be in the army if i was such a coward.
i am a coward i get scared for anything,i hate myself,,i look fat im probably not pretty either.
the bad thing is school is in less than 2 weeks and im going to be a fresh man...i hope i die within that time...because its not worth...if im probably not gonna be good enough for the army why even try anymore,what is the point?
im never gonna be a model or a soldier.im probably gonna end up being homeless.
i just dont know what to do anymore.
2007-08-25 12:53:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Relax and stop worrying. You're only 14! I do recommend you talk with a counselor. And live for the moment. Things will work themselves out. Promise.
2007-08-25 12:59:30 · answer #1 · answered by Max 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just because something hurt doesn't make you a coward!!! It just means that it hurt, and I'm sure that it did burn pretty bad. Its okay to feel pain, and its okay to be scared. Please try and talk with an understanding adult, about the feelings that you are having. 14 is a very hard and confusing age, but I promise that things will get better. You need to talk to someone who can help you understand and deal with your feelings and emotions in a positive way. Suicide is a permanent solution to a very temporary problem. You can't ever take it back, and if you think no one will miss you, you're wrong. I had a good friend of mine kill himself when I was 13. I am almost 27 now, and it still affects me and other people that knew him. It was totally senseless and preventable. You sound depressed, and you need to seek mental health care. Please. Please!! And I think that you were very brave to post this.
2007-08-25 20:05:39 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if you have aim, im me. My screen name is KillerVampire67.
Listen, death is never a solution. That's the cry baby way out. And it can't make anything better, obviously, because you won't be alive to know what better is.
I don't know why you would cry about bleaching your hair, it doesn't really hurt. Sometimes it burns your scalp though, depending on your scalp, I guess it could hurt.
So you want to join the army? Well, it might be good for you. You say you're afraid of everything and obviously you have a low tolerance of pain, they will definitely help give you some endurance. I wanted to join the marines for I don't know how long, but I ended up chickening out. I'd get too homesick.
Send me a message if you need to talk, ok? I'd love to help you out some more. If I'm not on aim, or you don't have it, you can email me at Killervampire67@aol.com or send me a message on myspace at Myspace.com/my_mental_hell
2007-08-25 20:05:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
God I wish I was 14 again with my whole life in front of me. I didn't think that at the time but 38 years later I 'd give anything to be able to go back and do it all over again. Maybe you could just pretend you're me and I got my wish and poof, I'm 14 again but as you. I lke to eat tasty things so I'd want to learn to cook dishes from all over the world. I 'd plant my own herbs and spices and find recipes to use them in. I love music and would learn to play a musical instrument just for my own personal pleasure. I love to take pictures with my camera and have then enlarged and framed for my room but they never look as good as the ones I see in magazines so I'd take a photography course. I love to hike up mountains for the clean air and the view and the photos but I get so out of breath. If I had more time I'd start walking then jogging and bike riding to build my endurance so when I got to the bottom of a mountain I could make it all the way up without stopping. I like to make my room look like I feel. I'd learn Faux painting and repaint my room every season. A song I like say's "don't it always seen to go, you don't know what you got till it's gone..." I think I could do anything I desired if I had the time to learn and practice it. Be a few years before I get in that position. You're so lucky. I wish I was you. Good luck!
2007-08-25 20:22:10 · answer #4 · answered by weintobago 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a hobby, try some music or instrument, drawing or writing....or a psychologist.
plus models are too skinny these days anyways.
good luck.
2007-08-25 20:02:06 · answer #5 · answered by phoebe r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time
You will be fine
Life is good
When you STOP focusing on the bad
2007-08-25 20:05:23 · answer #6 · answered by SASSY 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
girls shouldn't be in the army anyway, become a homemaker.
2007-08-25 19:57:44 · answer #7 · answered by honda man 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
what that guy said
2007-08-25 20:02:04 · answer #8 · answered by basketballscoringmachine 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋