Okay the last girl I tryed getting lead me on. Boy was I hurt when I found out she didn't like me like that! So now I'm talking to this new girl and little stuff like her not calling me back one time makes me think she doesn't like me. But she hugs me and talks to me and waves at me. But still I have dout's all the time and it hinders me from being myself around her. I feel I'm never on the same page as the girl I want to be with. Can you please help me?
2007-08-25 12:08:22 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best thing you can do is pick one good time and ask her out. Do this early instead of talking to her for a long time. This way if she does like you, then you can be on the same page as her. The more you talk to her without the pretense of dating her the more chances you have to screw up, resulting in her not liking you.
I hope that helps, Good Luck
2007-08-25 12:16:47 · answer #1 · answered by hockeyfreak 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to be yourself! No one really likes to find out later that the person they thought you where is not really you. You don't like it in a girl, so why would a girl like it in you. You need to remember if you are just dating a girl, it takes time to get to know one another, and remember you have things to do other than talk to a girl, and they have a life also. Get out there and meet people, the right one will come along.
2007-08-25 19:15:16 · answer #2 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should just try talking to her. ask her if she wants to be more than friends because right now it only sounds like you two are friends. i hug, kiss on the cheek and talk to my guy friends all the time. sometimes we talk for hours on the phone. we think of eachother as brothers and sister. not all though some are just really close friends. hey, if any of them wanted to be more than friends i would definetely give it a shot. it will either further our relationship or make us grow apart. you will never know until you try it. don't stress over this...just hang in there and if she doesn't want to be more than friends; your time will come. some lucky girl will be calling you her man. best of luck to you. take care and aloha!
2007-08-25 19:21:18 · answer #3 · answered by born&raised: maui_gurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing you have to understand is that girls LOVE to flirt to any hot guy so i would definitly watch out before you start liking one of them. And a hug and a wave is what all girls do to guys who there friends with. Just relax from the girls a little and let them come to you :)
2007-08-25 19:17:20 · answer #4 · answered by Emmy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Her not calling you back could just be an over site. It's possible she's kinda flakey and rarely checks her messages, or her phone wasn't charged and she had no clue you even called. Or she could just be wanting to know that you are a little more persistent than the avg Joe because she's insecure.
2007-08-25 19:14:34 · answer #5 · answered by censored_4_tv 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have a best friend thats terrible about returning phone calls and i know she loves me alot. so if i were you i would just chill your taking every thing to heart and you shouldnt there could be several reasons she didnt or doesnt always call back. just try and call her again but don't make a pest of yourself because you are insecure that kind of thing never works in a relationship give her space and respect and you will be fine.
2007-08-25 19:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about that other girl in the past. that was then && this is now. this girl seems like she likes you so stop being afraid to be yourself. the more u think she's going to stop liking you...it's going to happen but if you just hope for the best && think nothing but positive thoughts everything will be okai. you just have to believe it. think of all the good things about yourself instead of the bad. try to become more and more confident. girls don't like insecure guys.
2007-08-25 19:17:49 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Missy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You still have the pain of your treatment from the other girl all over you and it's jading your impression of this girl. By your own description she's demonstratively affectionate, but because she can't keep that behavior up constantly (and frankly who could?) you begin to have doubts. You're doing well...you have an attentive woman who is in to you, so calm down and don't mess things up. That other girl is history, and we all have them in our pasts...don't let her memory wreck your future too. Think it through....you'll see I'm right. Good luck.
2007-08-25 19:24:25 · answer #8 · answered by Captain S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to swallow your pride and talk to her about how you feel. It may be that you are dragging old baggage into this interaction and reading it wrong. The solution is complete honesty about your emotions. Tell her.
If you are going to get an answer you don't want it is better to get it now. You are only looking for yes. When you get no, move on. Each no, gets you one step closer to yes.
2007-08-25 19:20:31 · answer #9 · answered by fortuno 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to learn to relax and let things happen naturally.. you are in too much of a hurry, maybe you are nervous around certain people, or you don't have great self-esteem.
if you become too pushy or clingy or come on top strong.. she will run in the other direction.
Pretend you don't like her and sit back and let her make some moves towards you...even if you have to hold back, let her come to you for a change.... some people do not like to be chased too fast too soon.......
2007-08-25 19:17:17 · answer #10 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋