why are people always attacking me?

Question

I suffer from dissociation so you figure I should be invisable
to people but Im not it seems as if almost everyone is constantly comming onto me giving me bad looks or trying to make me feel uneasy why does this happen? am I wearing a sign on me?

what should i do about this help please I never did anything to anyone

its so bad I dont even want to go outside anymore its not that I cant handle myself its just I already have enough problems to deal with

Answer 1

Probably when you were little, you must have had a reason not to trust people...something usually causes this kind of feeling, when you are a child, and learn to mistrust people..and you have also been made to feel bad about yourself, so you have no confidence..and you for some reason, believe that you deserve people to stare at you and trying to destroy you...but you don't deserve it, and just start wearing dark glasses, keep your head down for the most part, and don't make eye contact..and ignore ignore ignore, especially because as you said, you have done nothing..God Bless, sweetie, you are wonderful

Answer 2

You're in therapy, right? That is the only way to improve or cure dissociation. Are you depressed, too? I'd guess that your dissociation is profound enough to feel alienated, different, and therefore, someone who'd draw the attention of others. If you also are seriously depressed, it's possible that you are also somewhat delusional (paranoid). The first step is to talk to your therapist about what is going on. If you don't have a therapist, ask your doctor for a few recommendations. If you don't have insurance, contact your county mental health department. If all of this is too overwhelming, ask for help from a friend or family member. You need to be in counseling. And, yes, I believe that you really never did anything to anyone, and that you deserve much, much better than what you are experiencing now. It really can get better, but you will have to take those first difficult steps to make it happen.

Answer 3

I don't know why everyone would be giving you bad looks or trying to make you feel uneasy. You say you suffer from dissociation maybe you are just thinking that they are doing that. Please don't take it the wrong way but why else would complete strangers be giving you nasty looks. If you see someone about your condition maybe you should express these concerns to them and see if they can help you work it out.

Answer 4

Yeah! People can do that.

But, is it really them.

Are you reading their minds.

I mean if you see some one coming toward you do think "What are you looking at!"

Maybe they are just looking to see if you will smile at them.
Maybe they are just passing by and noticed you.
Maybe they noticed someone behind you and you got in the way.

You see there are many reasons why people look your way.

People cannot see how you feel or think.

They are too busy thinking about how they feel or think.

Is that any different than what you do. You are too busy thinking about what you feel.

And as if that isn't enough you are imagining how other people feel and think about you.

So if you want friends. Be a friend.
Smile at everyone. Say hi. Nod your head.
Ask them how they are and mean it.
If they stop to talk to you make some chit chat.

The only sign you are wearing is "I'm Human".

read my articles at
http://themeaningisyou.com

Answer 5

its called SURVIVAL OF THE FITTEST (READ DARWINS WORK)

Its because you project weakness and a dependency for the opinions of others

Stop playing games with yourself, Not everyone in the world is here to like you or be your friend.

From a primitive point of view, people hate the weak because they present a waste of resources for the pack or herd (if you like)

Learn to just LET GO. Remember, those that so called 'attack ' you are no more human than yourself. They are just as vulnerable to death and misfortune as you are.

The more you DEPEND ON OTHER PEOPLE, the weaker you are as an individual. Imagine this, swap your position with your 'attackers' so basically swap passive to dominant. You want to know the difference? The difference is in the mind frame, a passive person thinks EXTERNALLY DEPENDENT THOUGHTS while a dominant person thinks INTERNALLY INDEPENDENT THOUGHTS

Remember power, fear, sadness is an illusion of the mind.

Your attackers are projecting their ILLUSIONS OF STRENGTH onto you and because your weak and vulnerable (mentally) your scared. They can sense your weak cause you PROJECT WEAKNESS. Remember you can only project to others whats in your mind.
Hope that helps!

Answer 6

Your obviously projecting something that is exceeding the ability of your dissociation to mask. They probably don't really see you, but just see that something is 'wrong'...and wonder what it is.

You'll have to seek assistance to figure out how to stop projecting this way...don't forget that most of the pros in this kind of field have to masquerade as psychologist...

Answer 7

could be in your head?
~a