my boyfriend has cheated on me in our relationship and I don't know if I should stay with him. i forgave him but I'm scared he will do it again. I worry everyday and I cry all the time but I love him with all my heart. Should I stay with him even though its making me cry and worry all the time?
2007-08-25 11:56:45 · 19 answers · asked by TawnyLee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would ditch him because most likely he will do it again.
2007-08-25 11:59:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy has cheated once, most likely he will do it again! Especially since he got away with it!
I know you love him and leaving him will probably be so hard, but the fact that it's making you miserable and worried, your obviously not even enjoying the relationship anymore! You have to ask yourself, would you ever cheat on him? If the answer is no, then you have to ask how he could do something like that if your supposed to mean so much to him?
Theres no excuse at all for cheating! You love this guy and he's hurt you so much and that is unforgiveable! Leave him, and try to be happy again, you really don't need someone like that in your life!
2007-08-25 19:06:09 · answer #2 · answered by hypermadboo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once A Cheater Always A Cheater Honeyâ¥
2007-08-25 19:11:22 · answer #3 · answered by kayceee, 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to cry every day? If you stay with him, that's what you will do. If you have to worry that he will cheat on you then you need to find someone new. How can you love someone that treats you so poorly? Have you no self respect, that you would let someone dump on you? You can be the ugliest, person in the world and deserve to have someone love you and be faithful to you.
2007-08-25 19:04:27 · answer #4 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will definately do it again. Now that you have forgiven him, he thinks he can get away with anything. I had a sneaky boyfriend like that once, and I was always getting nervous and asking questions about what he did or who he was with, so he ended up dumping ME! It can't work out with a cheater. I loved mine so much that it started turning me into a mental wreck when I wasn't with him. I never knew what he was doing, and it ruined my life. Get out while you're ahead and find a man that loves you and ONLY you.
2007-08-25 19:01:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anastasia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because you obviously no longer trust him and without trust you can't have a healthy relationship. Yes you love him, but are willing to be in pain and worry all the time, or just hurt for a little while and move on to someone who will treat you right?
2007-08-25 18:59:57 · answer #6 · answered by Nikke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you put yourself through that??? LEAVE HIM NOW!
Once a cheater, always a cheater. If he doesn't respect himself, what makes you think he will ever respect you?
He's a cheater, let him go and move on. Start the next chapter of your life, and make sure it's without him. You will find someone much better out there, trust me.
Good luck!
2007-08-25 19:38:44 · answer #7 · answered by BaldTom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ultimately no1 can answer this question for you. You can search and search all day llong but no one can give that answer to you that will make everything better. I am sailing a simular boat and you know the answer. There are 2 options leave or stay be happy or not.
2007-08-25 19:09:07 · answer #8 · answered by narnz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know a cheater is a cheater you know, I don't want to tell you to dump him though. Just know that if you stay w/ him chances are that he will again. I think that maybe you should just think about better things, like super sexy pool boys = )! Lol sorry if that makes you mad.
2007-08-25 19:01:40 · answer #9 · answered by Michael H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that strongly about him cheating on you again, then that means you seriously don't trust him. If you don't trust him, then why should you stay with him? But if you love him, then you need to let him know how you feel. If he loves you as well, then he needs to earn your trust. But, if you still have trouble trusting him, then no matter how much you love him, let him go. It wouldn't be fair to him to be with someone who has lost all trust in him with no hope of earning it back.
2007-08-25 19:02:42 · answer #10 · answered by Rubette73 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's very hard. But my question to you is: Are you willing to stay with him because you love him? And are you willing to just be worried and cry for the rest of your life?
2007-08-25 19:02:00 · answer #11 · answered by prettyjewel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋