she use to be a sex addict and wanna do it every second but now she does not want to do it all the time she says she wants to just go to places with me to like the movies mall and stuff like that WAT DOES THIS MEAN HELP ME PLZZ!!!
2007-08-25 11:54:34 · 16 answers · asked by YEAHH!!! MAN!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
either you are not a good lover or she is trying to detach from you to break up with you - it's kind of weird that she would do a 180 degree turn like that - she seems to be trying to make you more of a friend than a boyfriend - you may have to sit down with her and go over why she has changed so much
2007-09-02 05:46:46 · answer #1 · answered by Big Buddy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may feel that the only reason you are with her (for sex). Take your lady out and have some fun.Show her off. May be she feels that you don't appreciate her . You know actions speak louder than words. Do things that show her you care for her , take her to the movies ,shopping in the mall, out to dinner ect.....She will not feel so neglected. Girls like a lot of attention. Show her some appreciation as a person not just a sex object.
2007-08-25 12:09:25 · answer #2 · answered by Precious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she used to be a sex addict then you guys really do need to take it slower. If you really like her then you need to respect her wishes and just hang out with her not pressure her into sex. It means she just wants to reevaluate the whole sexual part of your relationship. Maybe she realizes that sex isn't all to a relationship and that she likes you alot and wants to know you better on a personal level. Stop being such a "guy" and just go with it, be happy she wants more from you. And if you aren't happy with that and you just want her to want to have sex with you all the time instead of hanging out and getting to know her more then maybe you aren't with the right women and you need to break up, but if thats the case then you are very shallow and were with her for the wrong reasons anyway!!
2007-09-02 06:22:08 · answer #3 · answered by sara e 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, what this means is that she would like to be involved with you as a person in real lilfe.
Obviously you've already experienced the sexual side of each other, now it's time to experience the side of life that is a part of reality outside of that.
If she didn't care about you, she'd dump you. I'd say her wanting to branch out and broaden your relationship into daylight hours is a very good sign.
2007-09-01 16:56:23 · answer #4 · answered by autumlovr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound good man. I've been in that spot before. I'd wait it out a little if i was you to see what direction it goes in but if she keeps refusing or not wanting to have sex I'd confront her on it and try to find the real reason. I can guarantee it isn't because she wants to get more quality mall shopping in.
PS: I dont know what these other people are talking about but if she has grown to love you in a new level she should still want to have sex with you.
2007-08-25 12:01:05 · answer #5 · answered by Seamus 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it means that the "excitement" has worn off and now she is craving your attention in another way: she wants you to communicate with her, hold her (without it leading to sex) maybe just being close to you without feeling like it is always going to be seen as an intro to sex! there is a whole other level to intimacy that has NOTHING to do with being physical. If you can figure that out, you will have discovered the complications of being a woman! Good Luck to you!
2007-08-25 12:00:48 · answer #6 · answered by ~*~California Momma~*~ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It means she's tired of you just viewing the relationship as a sexual one only.
Apparently, you've stopped taking her places if she's asking to be taken out.
The relationship has become only a sexual one now and she's sick of that. She no longer wants a one-dimensional relationship anymore. She wants to do the things you guys used to do before sex became the only focus.
Cut back on your sexual trysts. Incorporate other things in the relationship and you guys should be okay.
2007-09-02 03:19:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means she feels your relationship has evovled from the sexual phase. you guys have grown! take this as an opportunity to expirience your girlfriend outside of the bedroom. Ask yourself: what do i truly know about my girl? What is her fav. color, movie, dinner spot, play....etc. build your relationship on something more than the physical and you will reap all the benefits that you DESIRE! lol. trust me i am a girl. I KNOW what i am talking about.
Hope this helps.
2007-08-25 12:00:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means you need to grow up and thank goodness you have a girl that wants to explore other things with you.
2007-09-02 11:21:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
intimacy, are different for men and woman. I think with men the more physical act of intimacy. Woman, need to feel that we are connected and the physical act comes later. Be with her let her know how much you feel for her, things will be fine....
2007-08-25 12:09:04 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs.Crow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋