i know quite a lot of people ask this but .. i like my best friend?

Question

He liked me in 7th grade and asked me out.. but at that time i had a bf so i turned him down but when i was in 7th grade i knew i liked him more than my bf.. my ex bf and i broke up a week after he asked me out and we became best friends. back in 7th grade... he said he'll wait as long as i take to love him back. well in 8th grade, he got a gf but we were still bst friends and he broke up with her like 6 months ago. i realize i still like him and we're heading into diff high schools. what should i do?

Answer 1

Up to you, usually thou best friends getting together means accepting a relationship that runs deeper then romance ever can, unless you understand the how, why, what, and truth behind that statment, don't! You'll ruin a good friendship, but if you want to grow, and you understand unconditional love, not romantic love, but UNCONDITIONAL love, then yes talk to him. What you need to understand is that the lovership has already happen, all you'd be doing is intensifing it. Just because we kiss, hug, and screw doesn't make the relationship deeper, its because we talk, relate, and care that makes that stuff INTENSE!!! Go ahead give it a try if you think you've got what it takes, it about broke me the two times I've done it, but BOY DID I HAVE TO GROW UP!!! LOL! I'd do it again thou! Actually I still do, relationships don't ever end, we just deny them, man the human heart is one wonderful organ when you began to control it more then it controls you! Go figure it out, and love this world!