my friend told me shes a lesbian and she has a crush on me but im strait what do i do????
2007-08-25 09:42:30 · 15 answers · asked by Ronnie♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You still be her friend...Just tell her that you don't swing that way and that you would like to keep her as a friend but if she feels that she can't handle that then tell her you have no other choice but to say good bye. She has a crush on you because you have been her friend and have shared things and did things together. A crush is totally different then being in love. Don't lose a friendship on some thing that will come to pass. To me a friend is a friend til the end...
2007-08-25 10:06:28 · answer #1 · answered by Bigeyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You basically tell her that you do not go that way! If she expects you to respect her decision to be a lesbian, then you should tell her she needs to respect you being hetero. If you can remain friends, then do so, and do not discriminate against her because of her choice in sexual partners. Bu if she is persistent in trying to get you to switch teams, then maybe you need to end your friendship.
2007-08-25 16:48:15 · answer #2 · answered by BRIDGETTE R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her its cool that she wants to be a lesbian and you all can continue to be friends but, she knows you are straight and that you do not like girls like that. You will be her friend and all but want her to keep her sexuality seperate.
2007-08-25 16:50:07 · answer #3 · answered by lizaa84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you are flattered but you do not swing that way. There is no reason to not be friends with her. If she understands that there are boundaries that she can not cross then the 2 of you should be fine.
2007-08-25 16:48:13 · answer #4 · answered by firemouse23 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her simply you just like her as a friend no biggie
There's no reason to stop talking with her && being her friend
just over this good luck girl =] I'm sure she'll understand
2007-08-25 16:46:22 · answer #5 · answered by manda102285 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you are flattered but that you are straight. Inform her that you will not judge her on her sexual preferences but that you want to find a male and so she needs to keep on looking.
2007-08-25 16:47:06 · answer #6 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel because one of my really good friends told me the same thing....and trust me its weird knowing your freind likes you (in that way) but all you can do is tell her your straight and you dont feel that way about girls but that you dont judge her and you still want to be her friend
2007-08-25 16:53:32 · answer #7 · answered by jamie l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be her friend. if she gets twisted because you are straight and want to stay that way then she really isn't your friend. If she is then she will be your friend and not hit on you.
2007-08-25 16:49:08 · answer #8 · answered by bocasbeachbum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you are flattered but you are not interested because you are straight.
2007-08-25 16:49:02 · answer #9 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing you'd tell a guy if you weren't interested.
2007-08-25 16:47:29 · answer #10 · answered by bibliophile31 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋