ive bin with my girlfriend for two months, and i thought i was falling in love with her but this last week i havent felt like i could fall in love with her,she some times irratates me, i think its coz ive seen twice a day for like 8 days straight, i hope that isn't the reason why coz i really like her and i want to be with her for ages, why do you think im feeling like this? thanks
2007-08-25 09:42:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when i say irritate i dont mean major
2007-08-25 09:51:34 · update #1
its like we want out partners 2 be perfect! but o course no one is perfect! so if expect things to irritate you! thats why it is good to have some space! id say dont take a break jus cut down on the amount of time you spend together- especially alone! try getting together with friends and see how you feel with her then! but you also need to think that if she is irritating you you are probably irritating her! ive benn married for 3 yrs n im constantly irritated- but i tell my husband- n we make jokes about how irritating each other is! take it slow- have fun! try a hobby you can do together because if you are both bored then you will get irritated regardless! hope this helps!
2007-08-25 09:57:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just that the old rose tinted glasses are starting to clear and you are noticing things that irritate you about her. This is the time when you need to take a look at how you really feel. If you really love her, then you will accept her unconditionally, faults an'all. But you need maturity to do this, so perhaps you don't yet have this to sustain a relationship past the initial buzz.
2007-08-25 16:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by Normsgirll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking the question it is because you already know the answer and want to put the blame for your decision on somebody else. Be adult kill it now. In the long run it will be best for both of you.
2007-08-25 17:00:46 · answer #3 · answered by JOHN R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cos you are too young for a relationship. and you know that you want OUT. be brave and cool it. there are loads of more people out there and she will realise it too given time. just be friends and dont stress.
2007-08-25 16:48:09 · answer #4 · answered by heavymetalbitch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, it's normal to get a bit irritated with someone when you're with them a lot. they end up smothering you - you need your own space.
2007-08-25 16:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by FuzzyCloud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe yall spend too much time together..take it slow I guess.
2007-08-25 16:48:07 · answer #6 · answered by ChuckDeucez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it slow maybe you just need some time apart?
2007-08-25 16:50:00 · answer #7 · answered by lizzie6419 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'd soon miss her if she was to leave you. have a break from her and see how you feel.
2007-08-25 16:48:10 · answer #8 · answered by louise d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcome to normality
2007-08-25 16:56:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋