Mend a broken heart..........and get over a guy?????
I really need help,yesterday i found out my best guy friend that i could tell anything toooooo[[he is also the guy i likee]] likes my friend that just started our school and did'nt like me :( Well my friend liked him so i jus told her to go out with him because they both liked each other.......i really liked this guy and i could'nt stop crying last night.i don't know what to do......at school i know its gonna kill me to see them walking around and holding hands and stuff......and the worst part is that i was gonna tell him how i felt that day or over the weekend.......should i still tell him i like him ???
2007-08-25 05:02:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He didn't tell me he didn't like me my bff asked him and said noo
2007-08-25 05:11:39 · update #1
You tried to be noble by telling your friend to go for him, and now you're feeling hurt by that decision. That's because romance isn't a noble venture...it's one of few times when you need to listen to your own heart and act accordingly. If you decide to tell him how you feel now, you're going to have to negotiate an obstacle you put in your own path. That's a big decision to make (deciding whether or not this situation is worth it), but there is no one more qualified to make this decision than you. One thing is certain: you've learned a big lesson, and one that will serve you well for the rest of your life. This is what Shakespeare meant when he said, "...this above all; to thine own self be true." There is a place for nobility, but generally romance is not that place.
2007-08-25 05:12:20 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They like each other and he doesn't like you. So what's the point in telling him when you already know the answer? Give yourself false hope perhaps? If it makes you feel any better, then just tell him and have closure.
You should feel happy for your friend if they end up dating each other. By the way, the best way to mend your broken heart is to meet new friends. You might get lucky and find someone you love and loves you back.
Good Luck. =)
2007-08-25 12:12:20 · answer #2 · answered by DomNix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a few tips.
1) No definitely don't tell him you like him. Act strong and I know it may be hard but guys like confident girls with independence.
2) Stay friendly and be yourself because maybe he'll find out he actually wants to be with you. Afterall he is your best friend meaning he liked you for who you are so don't change!
3) Jealousy of other girls is also a huge turn off for guys because it shows insecurity.
4) Get to know other boys so you can forget about him, look popular and maybe get him wishing he was with you!
5) Everything in life happens for a reason and you have a lot to offer that one guy will definitely appreciate!
2007-08-25 12:10:25 · answer #3 · answered by exactly826 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have stepped up girl. Tell him before its to late and then you will know. No regrets life is to short . Do not waste tears over silly boys. Trust me your young and think that highschool is all you have. Heck no there are plenty of other men in the sea and you will meet plenty of them. If it doesn't work out turn your attention to something else and move on. Four years from now you will be like omg I cannot believe I liked that boy.
2007-08-25 12:11:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should not tell him at the moment because if you do it might just cause problems between you and your friend . . so you might lose both of them as mates and i am sure you don't want that. personally i would try and be happy for them and see what happens you never know you might find some one or if it does not work out between them . than maybe you could tell him how you feel then. hope this helps
2007-08-25 12:10:55 · answer #5 · answered by louise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont tell him u like him. Dont worry sweetie, you'll find the right guy for you. And the only thing that mends a broken heart is time.
2007-08-25 12:07:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldn't now tell him how you feel... you kinda lost the chance to after you set them two up... Id say that you need to just go after a different boy... no this hurt wont last either, it will go away as soon as you find interest in another...
2007-08-25 12:10:44 · answer #7 · answered by I Heart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him, since you know he'll reject you for sure and give you more sadness. Just secretly love him and sacrifise for him until he knows and appreciate then he might turn around. Good luck.
2007-08-25 12:10:04 · answer #8 · answered by Zect 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait and see if things work out for them before you do or say anything.
2007-08-25 12:07:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should.if he's a good friend hye wont tell your friend the way you feel bout him.and you should try 2 tell your friend.maybe she wil understand the way you feel.and if she knows you really like him maybe she will back off.
2007-08-25 12:07:11 · answer #10 · answered by janae_gaines 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋