My Aunt and Uncle's 40th wedding aniversary party is tonight at a bar. Its nothing fancy. The invite says NO GIFTS. Is there something cheap and quick I should pick up (card?, flowers?) or should I just skip the gift idea?
2007-08-25 04:09:26 · 28 answers · asked by Ultimate Guitar Hero! 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
A card is great, its not really a gift, but it shows you care, you know?
2007-08-25 04:13:08 · answer #1 · answered by Rain 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a card, not a gift.
They probably have everything they need at that age and they do not want to clutter up the house with extra junk. Also, many people feel that if they come to something they must bring a gift so instead they just do not go. It probably is more important to your Aunt and Uncle that the whole family comes and they do not want anyone feeling bad for either not coming or bringing a cheap gift.
2007-08-25 06:07:35 · answer #2 · answered by forgivebutdonotforget911 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they said "No Gifts" then a card is perfectly acceptable and the best way to show that you care. Just respect the "no gifts" thing - alot of people just want to spend time with those they love and really don't need or want stuff - especially once you hit 40. Gifts for family really should be restricted to those 18 and under or weddings, showers etc... unless you're especially close.
2007-08-25 04:12:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Respect their wishes and don't bring a gift to the party. It may embarrass them and make others uncomfortable that they didn't bring a gift. Maybe you can send flowers or a card the next day, and mentioned you had a good time (if you did.)
2007-08-25 05:48:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not take anything, if you bring something then others will feel as though they should have done the same. Mail a card or send flowers if you feel something more is needed. Hugs can go a long way and to let them know you are happy in your life. Take the time and pray for their continued happiness and thank God for what he has given them in their life.
2007-08-25 04:18:54 · answer #5 · answered by oakscrty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No gifts means no gifts. Just bring a card.
2007-08-25 15:52:32 · answer #6 · answered by VeggieTart -- Let's Go Caps! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it says no gifts then dont worry about the gift, for all they know u cudda given them a good gift. THEY miss out. but yeah a card or a bottle of champagne or a bunch of flowers would nice.
2007-08-25 04:15:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a nice card would be fine. Skip the gift.
2007-08-25 04:13:17 · answer #8 · answered by G.V. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just a card is fine. If you feel compelled to get them something, do a small gift card ($20 or so) that fits into the envelope, so it doesn't stand out as a gift if no one else gets them anything.
2007-08-25 04:14:10 · answer #9 · answered by slider 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would bring a card at most. They don't want to be juggling ten bouquets in the bar and on the way home. You could also ask them if there is a charity you could donate something to in their names (if you like them that much)
2007-08-25 06:16:25 · answer #10 · answered by LX V 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋