My girlfriend and I have been dating for 5 months already, I've fallen in love with my girlfriend but afraid to tell her. I'm scared that she might not say it back. I care so much about her. I even risk my money on her. I went to a casino and betted 1000 dollars on casino (VIP card, minimum of betting is 1000), I had only $30 in my pocket when I entered last vegas. Now I got $38,000 from winning those high bets. I bought a very expensive purse for her. I'm actually very thankful to have her in my life. I'd be lost without her. How do I tell her that I love her?
2007-08-25 03:50:36 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
its simple... just open your mouth and say " I love you" she should already know you love her bc you seem to treat her extremely well.
2007-08-25 03:53:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to say first that someone said here that you seem to treat her nice...im assuming they gather that because you bought her a really expensive purse...well not saying you dont treat her well but buying a girl nice things doesnt mean you treat her well, just so we are on the same page. As far as telling her how you feel, you could just have a regular conversation and make it meaningful, or you could write a letter to her, and then let her make the move first, but as a woman, id much rather hear the words then read them. Usually if you are scared to say it that means its real, youre afraid of what she might say...well that might not be a good thing, if you have any reason to think she might not say it back, maybe she is in like with you, but not strong enough feelings are there for her to say she loves you, dont be discouraged, just talk to her and let her know how you feel!
God bless and good luck!
2007-08-25 22:56:51 · answer #2 · answered by Heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't plan it, you'll have the courage when you feel that your also being honest with your feelings it will just happened. its like singing...the more you think about the high note ...the climax ...the best part of the song...the more you get worried you might go out of tune...even if you have mastered it a zillion times... just let it flow ... saying I Love You from the heart is much much much more difficult than trying to sing the whistle of mariah Carey...especially if your intentions are real and true... coz you'll think about so many things...like rejection...etc. don't rush it will come to you....by the way ... i don't want to condone with your gambling... for me no ones a winner in those things... and its not a measurement of ones capacity ... its just a game to enjoy a money well earned ... gifts are nice but it never buys TRUE love. but its nice... as always i wish you good luck may you be productive and inspired to do good in life.
2007-08-25 04:03:17 · answer #3 · answered by sithu7366 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any reason to think she may not feel the same way? If not, more than likely she is wanting to say but afraid also, and waiting for you to say first. If you know you love her it is time to tell her. You need to know how she feels so that you can figure out where this relationship stands. Better to know one way or the other than continue to fall more in love, it will just be harder if you find out later she doesn't feel same way. Just pick the right moment and say I love you. Good luck.
2007-08-25 04:28:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you've certainly spent alot of money on her. I'm not so sure thats the way to go. she may grow to love your money more than you. show her that theres more to you than money. I think writing it down would help. Like instead of saying it just write it down and leave it somewhere, like on her pillow or something i dunno ur a smart guy you'll find somewhere special to put it. Oh and before you do that maybe you should make sure shes not just there for your money see what she would do if you had none. Trust is a major part of a relationship. Its not easy to tell someone you love them if you really do but just relax. everything will work out in the end, if it hasnt worked out then its not the end.
Good Luck!
2007-08-25 04:02:27 · answer #5 · answered by *Miss C* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good that you won!
but... seriously give up gambling now while you are ahead!
I can see it now!
YOu'll test your faith again and again!
And well... the odds are against yoU! Despite how much you are in love!
Soon enough... you'll probably blame your g/f for the misfortunes... and sounds like you will probably lose her because you have too much faith in gambling (can you say.. the start to a gambling problem!?!)
anyways... buying her material things won't just do the trick...
she will think this will continue... and maybe you can keep doing these nice purchases... but that isn't what tells her that you love her!
Try spending it on BOTH OF you!
Go on a nice cruise!
Trip to the Carribean???
Travel together....
goto Niagara Falls for the w/e!
From there... your relationship will build and well...
it won't be around material things!
good luck
2007-08-25 03:56:57 · answer #6 · answered by movngfwd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her. If you do not want to tell her straight out that you love her try something like "We've been together for 5 months now and I really enjoy the time we spend together. You are very special to me and I love feeling that close to someone. I hope you feel the same way about being with me." You said the word "love" without shoving down her throat. See how she responds.
2007-08-25 03:57:48 · answer #7 · answered by Gary W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women pay much more attention to what you do than what you say. If you can't tell how she feels about you, then you may want to find out. Look at how she acts and what she does. If it seems she is just as stricken with you as you are with her, then let her know you have fallen for her and are glad she is yours. Call a financial advisor and invest some of your winnings. Don't blow it on trying to impress this girl. Think with your head.
2007-08-25 03:56:59 · answer #8 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are out of your god damn mind taking those kinds of risks for a woman, and only a girlfriend at that. What your actions are going to lead to are you losing your a** off when she takes you for all you have. You are trying to buy her affection, which never, never ever, works out.
Keep the pain relievers at the ready, because you are heading for a nose dive! It may not happen today or tomorrow, but if you are going to bet on something, bet on that!
2007-08-25 03:58:40 · answer #9 · answered by Marc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money doesn't buy love! Read the book The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman- very good book I just read! But honestly- a girl who loves you wouldn't expect you to buy expensive gifts. Save that money for more important things.
2007-08-25 04:01:50 · answer #10 · answered by m930 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first: NEVER, NEVER, bet or play the stock market with borrowed money. That's the beginning of a whole boatload of problems!
Now, to the girlfriend: She's probably wondering how you feel. In a light moment, just say something like, "You're really good at that, that's one of the reasons I love you."
Good luck to you.
2007-08-25 03:57:32 · answer #11 · answered by Terri J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋