I love this girl that went to my school.
I fell for her since i first met her then i got to know her and she had the coolest personality and good looks. But she has a boy friend but she isnt happy at all with him. She told me he hits her all the time and calls her a B**ich.
and ive liked her for the past year and i get a huge knot in my throat knowing a girl like her is going to waste with a guy that treats her like that but for some reason she wont leave him.
i like her soooo much i cant describe it but it makes me wanna hurt the other guy becuz hes hurting her.
what should i do???? i just wanna go crazyyyyyyyy and the girl graduated so now i cant talk to her. omg i hate living in california all this had to happen cuz i moved here.
2007-08-25 03:36:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well buddy, this news is gona stink but ive got to tell you this, she knows very well she can leave him, there is obviously some reason she isnt. And dont be the one to break them up
1. Youll end up hurt/injured/dead
2. Youll loose your friend
3. Youll live with that guy forever on your back
4. Youll realize things you would never wanted to
All i can say is be there but dont interfere.
2007-08-25 03:50:04 · answer #1 · answered by neohnecrosis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she is probaly affriad to leave him because the guy either threatend her not to leave or she just cant let go. You should tell her that you need to let your bf go your not happy with him so why bother stick around with him. And if she breaks up with him give her a week or two then you can go up to her and say you like her or ask her out.
2007-08-25 03:42:53 · answer #2 · answered by Annie B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your in the same state or have connestions, just tell her. you need to just pull her over one day and say listen. for the past year ive liked you. i cant stand too see you with such a guy that does such things to you. your supposed to be treated with respect and i really like you alot, and i would never treat you like that and i never wanna hurt you or any kinda such things like that. thats all you really have too do. and hopfully you can win her over.
2007-08-25 03:43:59 · answer #3 · answered by vexen431 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who stays with such a bf has little self-esteem, even less self-respect and is NOT worth your time. Trust me.
In fact, TELL HER that you simply cannot be friends with people who treat themselves with such disrespect and watch them hurt themselves like this and that you will not be friends with her until she leaves her bf. Note this DOES NOT mean her replacing him with YOU.
2007-08-25 03:47:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
learn to earn and support yourself before you start loving or falling in love.
She is a graduate and is likely to start earning. You to need to support yourself
2007-08-25 03:48:04 · answer #5 · answered by Abhijit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋