2007-08-25 03:32:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The answer would all depend on what stage of alzheimer your parent is in.
When my mother was in the middle stages of this illness, I obtained the power of attorney form then had a notary come to my house to witness and notarized the signatures.
If he/she is in the first stages, then you can obtain a power of attorney form at any office supply store. You can also download and print one from the internet. The form would need to be signed and notarized. If he/she are in the later stages of this illness, it would be best to consult with an attorney. 99% of attorneys will consult with you for the first half hour or hour for free. You can find an attorney in your area thru the phone book or even online.
Make sure you have all property transferred to your name once you have the power of attorney.
I know it is not easy to care for a parent with this illness. You will need as much support as you can get. If you are the sole caregiver, you will begin to resent your parent and the guilt that follows is tremendous. An alzheimers patient does not know or remember from one minute to the next and it is very difficult and frustrating for the caregiver. When you find that you are no longer able to take care of your parent, the best thing you can do for yourself and your parent is to put your parent in a home that deals with this type of illness. If your parent is on social security, they will take care of the finances involved.
I know it's hard. I had to go thru it for a number of years before I couldn't do it anymore. It is not cruel. Your parent will have the best of care. More than what you are capable of giving.
I wish you the best and my prayers are with you. If you want to talk to someone who has been there, you can contact me for moral support. My email is sopawdi1@aol.com
2007-08-25 03:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by Diana 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2017-01-18 19:29:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for an attorney in your local yellow pages that gives free consultations. You will be able to talk to him/her and get the information you need to proceed. It's a legal matter and I believe an attorney is the only one who has the necessary forms you'll need to file for this.
My aunt became my grandma's power of attorney because she too had alzimers and couldn't make the proper decisions anymore.
2007-08-25 03:38:45 · answer #3 · answered by aweety69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF your parent is in hospital this can be done without any bother with the help of a hospital social worker and at no cost.
you can buy a power of attorney form from a legal stationers and it is simple to fill in and you do not require the services of a solictor for this it is all perfectly straightforward and simple
to skully NO COURT DECISION IS INVOLVED AT ALL
2007-08-25 03:41:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This involves a solicitor and a court decision. Or there may be a way to save the cost of the solicitor and do this Pro Se. But it still means a court decision.
2007-08-26 04:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by Skully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a solicitor - although if parent is already considered to be past competency, this will also involve the medical profession.
2007-08-25 03:35:43 · answer #6 · answered by Sal*UK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
through the gp
you have to get a certification from the parents Gp whose dealt with them for a number of years and can see the decline in mental faculties
2007-08-26 08:02:14 · answer #7 · answered by ~*tigger*~ ** 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just go to a lawyer and tell him what you need to do. they will guide you in the steps you need to take. after seeing the lawyer then talk with your parents and tell them its the best thing for them and you will let them know of the choices that you make so they arent surprised.
2007-08-25 03:39:39 · answer #8 · answered by marilynfsmgm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see a lawyer. Any competent lawyer will be able to advise you on your legal options.
2007-08-25 04:41:06 · answer #9 · answered by vtothef 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋