I've had my heart broken too many times. I've been listening to too many people telling me things I already know. I see too many good women who I can not be with pass me by. Now, I'm sick of it, but I'm still a sweethearted gentleman, with a broken heart. If you have any opinions, feel free to provide.
2007-08-25 03:26:31 · 17 answers · asked by jerome h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love has always come to me when I wasn't looking for it. It tends to surprise you at the most unexpected times. My recommendation is that you go out and have fun - with friends, family, whatever and it will happen naturally. Good luck!
2007-08-25 03:30:43 · answer #1 · answered by brigirl_00 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I lost my wife and son 5 years ago. This almost destroyed me, literally. I know the pain of your heart and I am sorry. I have not had a date since, nor have I slept with a woman. I am just now starting to think about having a date again. I am 52 years old now and it is very difficult to re-enter the dating scene. This goes for finding a significant other on both sides of the fence, but it seems that it is hard to find a person that isn't carrying baggage, or wants me just for my money, or have me raise her kids. I know that the right woman is out there, but I haven't found her yet. Another thing I have noticed is that single men my age tend to have a stigma with many women, like, "what is wrong with me that I am not with someone"? I have not given up, you shouldn't either. Just don't act out of desperation and end up with the wrong person. Be careful, and God Bless.
2007-08-25 10:35:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice I can give is to stop looking. Take a step back and focus on some hobbies or cool stuff you like to do. And before you know it, a nice lady will come along. Example, a girl recently cancelled a date with me. Instead of stressing out, I moved on. And low and behold, I met this great girl last night at a coffee shop. I have no idea how it will turn out but the point is that I am having fun meeting people.
2007-08-25 10:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by Larry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man, your are in the same tree as me, if anything we are sitting together on the same branch. I right there, i know perfectly good women and not a single one will acknowledge me for the caring person i am. I'm there for them and then they take advantage of that. Probably the same for you right, nice people like us will prosper in the long run ok, in the short run its gona be tuff and your gona be alone for a bit, but when others have child payments to make YOU will have a loving wife, so think of that.
2007-08-25 10:34:08 · answer #4 · answered by neohnecrosis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds like you need to do some "body work".
I too am in the same situation.
ANd am NOT looking at ALL!
I say no, to my options and am just focused on ME!
In the past... i was the one whom was always giving.
Myself was always neglected! I know deep down inside... i can go back to my old self.... but i am not worried about what i can give. I am more worried about myself.
I have things to do. I need to grow up... and be certain about myself and my destiny. I want to have NO reliance on my soul mate... and perhaps.. .that is why my past relationships failed!
Because... they didn't want to be responsible for my destiny!
In hindsight... who does? It might not work!
And now... growing up... it really should be up to me!
Now... i hope my attitude will strengthen and realize... i can share my achievements thus share my destiny.
Finding my soul mate?
I think...... soul mates will find each other.
Work on the HOME FRONT first! YOU!
take a break....
and let everyone (available) around you know it!
good luck
2007-08-25 10:34:05 · answer #5 · answered by movngfwd 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Continue to be the sweethearted gentleman. One day you'll meet the one.
2007-08-25 10:33:11 · answer #6 · answered by Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up.. I haven't and i'm almost 25... Haven't had any relationship ever since... Sure I've fallen in love and hurt a zillion times.. but hey.. i've learned from them.. don't give up.. Loving and being loved is the greatest experience a person can have in his/her life.. So don't give up, okay.. it'll come...
2007-08-25 10:35:01 · answer #7 · answered by ~pReTTy GaL~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, I'm just like you, but you just have to be patient. Just wait for it and you'll be happy again. Why don't you enter a chat room?
2007-08-25 10:40:24 · answer #8 · answered by meonly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love comes at the most unexpected time and you don't even have to come looking. It just comes.
2007-08-25 10:30:20 · answer #9 · answered by attyjudz 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Interesting choice.
2007-08-25 10:29:39 · answer #10 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋