Why do men assume?

Question

Why do men assume when they meet a woman in a wheelchair she can't have sex? That is so stupid! My friend runs into that more times than I can count. It drives her nuts. She is thinking about wearing a sign! Why are men so superficial about things like that anyway? A woman in a wheelchair is the same as a woman who isn't. Why treat a woman different because of your ignorance?

Answer 1

We probably think this ( I'm not saying I do think this) because maybe they won't do as good and won't "satisfy" there needs in a woman. For example some men love thighs and hips and would rather prefer that.

Answer 2

First, you're being ignorant by assuming all men do this. Now, to answer the question, it IS different, obviously, but that doesn't mean it should be viewed as a negative. Sadly, no matter who you put in a wheelchair, it will always be the first thing someone notices, not the person themself. It can't be denied, it's different. They will assume many things, because people aren't all educated or informed on such medical conditions. You see a guy with his mouth wired shut, you assume he can't talk, yes? Same thing. It's not necessarily ignorance, but you can't expect them to know right away whether they can or can't have sex. Not all men are superficial about it either ;) It's just them being unsure of something new to them. Hell.. I'm 25, and I've only seen maybe one woman in a wheelchair face to face my whole life.

Answer 3

"Why treat a woman different because of your ignorance?" Well that's kind of an obvious don't ya think? They treat them differently BECAUSE their ignorant.

But anyhow, I have to admit when I see a woman in a wheelchair, I assume she has no function of the lower half of her body... which, to be honest with you, would seem to make sex a little laborious and not so fun.

And if you don't know that guys want to have sex, then u clearly have a lot to learn. that's not superficial. that's nature.

Answer 4

Why treat a man of colour differently to a man of white ?
Why treat an asian man differently to a man of white?
why treat an alian differently to a human being?

Many why's there isnt there , its called ignorance and the inability to see outside the safety net they were raised , the lack of knowledge of what can be done or will be done , what hurts what doesnt hurt , what damage to the body sustained to its capability of feeling pleasure.

Its a sad world we live in I'm afraid and many will feel the view you see , your friend will find a man worthy patience is all.

Answer 5

The men just do not want to have sex with a woman in a wheel chair.

Answer 6

I'm certain she can give head. It would be really unconfortable to ask such a question anyway, hey baby since your cripled can you ****? lol. Besides that grounding as you might call it probably made her a better woman, if you see someone like that always stop to talk, you will be glad you did.

Answer 7

i think most guys would assume she cant have sex cuz if a guy is in a wheelchair , wouldnt u assume if it was yanker was working or not? if u get hurt espically under the waist a thing or two may stop working but thanks for letting us knoe appreciate it

Answer 8

Where do you live because all the guys Ive ever met pretty much take on the motto "hole's a hole" and aren't really too picky about, well, anything. Which in some cases is gross, but i digress.

Answer 9

because men are silly.... and they wont ever change im not sayin all men are that way but most are and they dont care and if a lady is in a wheel chair no matter how beautiful most men will ignore them men suk

Answer 10

not all men are like that if you meet a genuine man who has better things on his mind there isnt many descent guys and girls about but if you find one make sure he or she dont escape from you they are a rare bred to get a great descent girl or boy.