i love this guy for 10 years...yes i know im very faithfull..
i cant seem to forget him..he is my first love..iam waiting for him, but i know he is not the one...how can i make him the one? i know he loves me too, but not too much like the other guy. the second guy loves me so much and he is so kind and i think he is the one..the other also is so loving and i feel like im always gonna b wondering what it could have been.....
i really dont know who to chose because i dont wanna ask myself "what ifs"
the first one is an impossible love that is y we cant b together...
i really dont know what to do..but im dying to b with him...trully dying for so much love for him...if i decide to b with him i will have to give up my family and everything...is it worth it? i dont know, but he seems to love me so and so...
the second like i said is perfect and also the third...
2007-08-24 22:04:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sounds like u like the first one more even tho it is impossible...i think u should go for the one u really love even if it is impossible...i dont think it is the wisest thing to do, but hopefully being with him u will fall out of love with him...
the second one if u dont love him then let him go....
it sounds like u rather b with the 1st one if it wasnt for the impossible love...y do u think he loves u less than the 2 other men? do u love him more is that y? good luck!
2007-08-25 20:20:50 · answer #1 · answered by prettyinpink i 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop considering! U have to make a choice. If I were u I'll definitely not choose the first coz if you have to b with him, it demands too many sacrifices, unless u r ready to leave everything 4 him. Above all he doesn't love u more than the second. The second is the best coz he loves u a lot and if he is definitely the ONE as u said u shud give it a try. Maybe u just wanna flirt with the third but not spend ur whole life wiz him.
2007-08-24 22:18:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you have only two options and not 3. The first one is useless as he cannot come to the final love despite 10 years. The second one though loving and caring too but you willl have to do away wit h your family. This is also not good. The third one is good. He is promising and he will have love like a godess of love as your deserve. Good Luck.
2007-08-24 22:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have children and a husband, it is not worth loosing over a one night stand. What you are doing does not glorify God. You should pray and ask the Lord to lead you on the right path. Do not continue to be an adulterer. Please.
-Seek the Lord with all your heart and ask the Lord for forgiveness.
1 Corinthians 6 - Sexual Immorality (NIV)
9Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor male prostitutes nor homosexual offenders 10nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. 11And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.
2007-08-24 22:19:41 · answer #4 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are not in love with 3 men. Because once you are in love you do not see anyone else. And never dump your family for a guy.
2007-08-24 22:15:28 · answer #5 · answered by Playful Kitten 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get actual, you're no longer in love. "In love with 3 men". How approximately "warm for 3 boys". GET THEE TO A NUNNERY! Oh, and none of them are the superb one. the superb one is the guy who shouldn't bang your proper chum after the promenade. yet you knew that, and you recognize you're no longer worth of him. So why the hell are you bothering?
2016-11-13 09:07:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your family make the choice and deal. You don't seem to know what is best for you, and they will have experience.
2007-08-24 23:27:36 · answer #7 · answered by Princess Picalilly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next to God family is most important thing to have. Never sacrifice your family for any relationship. Think with your head first then your heart.
2007-08-24 22:11:23 · answer #8 · answered by Pablo P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just look for the pros and cons with all three. see which one is the best for you to me it sounds like guy #2. And you cant make the guy be the one he's just got to be the one.
2007-08-24 22:13:43 · answer #9 · answered by Tanya N 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Confused and dazed is more like it, try putting their names in a hat and choose one, they all seem to be the one for you.
2007-08-24 22:11:21 · answer #10 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋