Do men get confused about their feelings?

Question

Yes or no?

& Why if yes?

& What us, women, can do about it? wait or move on?


Thanks:)

I'm not stereotyping, nor taking sides, so please...but seriously, I found lots of questions here about women being confused about how men feel toward them...I'm talking about mature couples, not kids who are playing hard to get.

Answer 1

Yup! All the time! But I think I'm learning to handle it better. Some guys second guess themselves and put too much pressure on themselves as well. I know I used to, and sometimes I catch myself reverting to old habits. As a woman, the best thing you can do is provide a validation, an obvious, clear sign how you feel. If you have done this a couple of times and the guy doesn't get it, then move on, but if you haven't you really need to. One of the worst things a girl can do is make her feelings ambiguous. Sometimes it's part of the game, but you need to make sure the other player is playing by the same rules. Otherwise, you might find yourself wondering why guys won't approach you. The reason some attractive girls aren't approached as often as they should be is because they are too good at playing hard to get. It just doesn't come naturally to a lot of guys.

Answer 2

Everyone can get confused about their feelings at times. Men do more so though, stereotypically, and that is because we try to hide them and ignore them for so long, so we aren't seen as weak. You should wait for sure. Help him sort them out. I can't give any advice on how to, you know him better than I do.

Personally, I am not confused by my feelings anymore. Ever since my girlfriend and I started going together, they have became very clear to me. I used to completely ignore my feelings, 100%. People said I was like a robot, lol. But once I fell in love with my girlfriend, it all just hit me like a brick, and became very clear. :P

Answer 3

From what you have written he's clearly an extremely careful guy who would not merely get into any relationship with a woman without heavily pondering the implications, his and the lady's emotions. that's a large start up, he's a very good guy! (of course you ought to confirm he's definitely involved, no longer basically announcing those issues to steer clear of having to permit you already know he would not prefer a female chum or you're no longer good). men are as tender as ladies, maximum do no longer tend to teach their thoughts/emotions as much as ladies because it rather isn't any longer seen to be rather 'cool' or 'manly' sufficient. possibly ask him if he's calling for a protracted term/short tem relationship, if he's, then evaluate if it rather is what you're searching for too. once you already know you the two prefer the comparable element, ask if he's pondering you as his female chum and remind him 'love' has no assure, no you are able to say no count number if one's determination is right or incorrect in the past even it has started! believe one's instinct and if it seems good then large, if no longer, a lesson learnt and manage it. existence is thrilling basically cos it is so unpredictable, volatile! xx

Answer 4

Men can become just as confused about ther feelings, or even moreso. However, stereotypes do cause us to call into question such things. You should do what you feel is necessary. If you want him, stick with him and help him figure it out. If not, bail. Doesn't get any simpler.

Answer 5

Do the man u Date bleed when u cut them? i hope so... if they do then they are just as human as u .. they have feeling but due to gender sterotype, cultural upbringing and a whole lot more.. Man do get confused, so best way i figure is communicate in a way he will get it. if he does not then u haf to tell him. if u figure he is worth it. wait? move on? all questions that will lead to more questions...

Answer 6

definetely yes, becoz if he caught you lying or he know that you are lying about anything, trust will fade away and it will start the confussion... And the only thing you can do is to be honest with him... that's all.

Answer 7

everybody gets confused about their feelings. Somtimes you cant really help, just gotta give them time. Its up to you if you want to stay maybe you can help, maybe not.

Answer 8

Yes all the time. I am ( I can't speak for all guys) very indecisive.

Answer 9

hey frd if u look at my question i m also looking for same sort of answer, but i think boys can answer us better.But i think they just don't care.

Answer 10

............yap!!!!!!!!!!! probably yezzzzzz.........dont wait........move on....take my advice......like if the guy is expecting you to come to your monthsary then sadenly u didn't appear.....surely he will bo so confused.......so just apologize and give ur valid reason 4 not coming.........say sory and if u say it then meant it.....and dont let it hapen again...try also to be sweet to him so he's being confused will sooner be gone.........




that thing alredy hapened to me..........so i meant wat i say.........gudluck pipz.................