What do you think are the best tips you could offer someone to help them maintain sobriety after a heavy loss?

Answer 1

Don't blame yourself. Don't punish yourself and definitely do not reward yourself either. Don't use drinking as a crutch to cope with stress like you used to do. Find other coping skills that will not eventually kill you over a very short period of time instead.

Answer 2

my initial thought is to return to the principles done in AA etc, THE 12 STEP PROGRAM.if you are prepared to help find a sponsor for them, those steps can be familiar to your Friend and use them to reflect on growing thru the loss,as an aim (versus in AA pursuing sobriety)
there are 12 step programs for various things surrounding loss, it depends on yhr situation. an AA contact (phone book) may be able to direct you specifically.
keep being the friend you are, they don't need to be devastated by the loss of a friend.
It is a day at a time,a moment at a time.
if you are seriously concerned that they may be a risk to themself,seek professional advice.
you already helped by asking this question, it shows your concern, and may be get a bit of support for your self if this is becoming overwhelming for you.

Answer 3

just one tip: what Caedmon, realized when his only daughter died: "if that passeth, this may too."
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