Would I Be a Bad Father For Teaching My Son How to Get Laid?

Question

serious question.

I personally didn't lose my virginity until really late, like 22, and felt really miserable/depressed through my teen years for being so sexless, while all my friends were getting it regularly.

Now my only son is 15, he knows about sex, and I'm sure he wants it as much as I did at his age. Would it be wrong for me to try to give him suggestions on how to pick up women. I'm not religous so I don't do the whole "save it till' marriage" crap.

I mean teach him practical things. How to suggest drinking to girls, how to mix drinks so they will get chicks drunk, which women to go after, safe sex practices, leting him have women alone in the house, supplying him with porn to study, lying to women ("I love you", etc.). Just you know, the basic strategy he'll need. I also have some books on picking up women I can read him as bedtime stories.....you get the point.

Would this make me a bad father? Or simply be something he'll thank me for when he is older?

Thanks

Answer 1

This isn't good and what you are doing does not glorify God. You could be a better father and teach him more important things like being responsible, and get his education. Show your son how to land a J. O. B instead. -That is more constructive. That is the wise thing to do. Everything else will fall into place. I doubt he needs your help with the negativity.

Proverbs 20:7
The righteous man leads a blameless life; blessed are his children after him.

1 John 3:7
Dear children, do not let anyone lead you astray. He who does what is right is righteous, just as he is righteous.

I will say a prayer for you to do the right thing as a father and for your son to do the righteous thing. -God Bless.

Answer 2

Well, if you had a daughter, would you treat her the same way and teach her the same things?

And if you had a daughter, would you trust someone like your son around her?

Just remember that your son is not you. You might've been sucked into the whole "Everyone is doing it and you should be like everyone!" thing but don't live your life through him.

If you're telling him there's something wrong with him if he doesn't get laid right now, then there's something wrong with that.

He'll have sex eventually, okay? Chillax.

Telling him how to trick girls and get them drunk is terrible. That's every parents' worst nightmare - that a boy would use their daughter that way or break her heart by lying to her. And yes, girls have died before from taking drinks from stupid boys.

Half the things you mentioned aren't practical at all. You didn't even mention condoms!

Your son will just be confused if you give him porn to "study". B/c real sex is not like a porno and real women and men don't look and act like the ones in pornos.

I doubt he'll thank you later in life, b/c if he takes everything you say to heart no girl would want to be with him later on in life. The most he'll get from girls is a slap in the face, at best.

And do you have such little faith in your son that you think the only way he could ever get a girl is if he lied or if they weren't sober? Hopefully, he has good qualities of his own that will attract girls.

Answer 3

I'm so saddened that this is actually a serious question, but I guess the best thing to do is not only express to him a little fatherly "sex education" but educate him on the outcome....there is no such thing in my book as safe sex, you can contract stds with a condom on...so If you want your son to grow up with the responsibility of fatherhood or the shame of an STD then thats your business, where do you live anyway? because sex for 15yr olds really isn't legal in too many states....And as far as encouraging your son to lie I think you may encourage him to be a bad person later on in life because he'll think being untruthful is an ok thing as long as hes getting what he wants

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Answer 4

I hope to god this is a joke. If your son is 15 I don’t think he needs to know how to mix drinks for anyone or know what to mix to get a girl drunk. Yes, teach him safe sex practices and maybe let him have girls over at the house while you are there but….. don’t give him porn!!! What are you nuts? That’s illegal (so is the drinking), but that is just disgusting. Plus, porn is so fake, what could he learn from that. And lying to them…. Saying I love you… oh boy oh boy. Lol I hope this was a joke. That’s all I can say.

Answer 5

i am going to answer this the same way i did on the last one


okay wow! u r the biggest ******* i have ever not known in my life. 1st off do u know how many stds there are - try and count them on one hand - do u know that your child is innocent - innocent - and you being a low life son of a bit@ch want to take that away because you did not lose your virginity until you were 22 ?????? let me ask you a question there father of the month - u say you were depressed and all sad before you lost it - well how was it when you did loose it? it was proably the most wonderful and beautiful exsperience in your life and proably way better cause you did wait - do you know how many people say God i wish i waited - think about this d%ckwe*ed - do you want your son to grow up and be honerable? do you want him to grow up and not die an early death because he had sex with a lot of girls and one of them had a std? do you want your son to grow up and be abusive to women? hit them - rape them - sleep with girls never call them again - use them? wow.... cannot belive what a fu%king pri*k you are. by the way by the twisted little alchol comments how would you like to be hanging out with some guys - they give you something to drink and next thing you know your waking up naked on the floor and wandering what happened come to find out they slipped some x in ur drink and fuc%ed you up the as.s - how would you like that? thats the same as what you want to teach your son. i hope ur son gets tooken away from you! ohh geee would that make me a bad father - if you were a good father you would talk to your son about respecting woman - go head and teach him bout safe sex - but teach him about stds let him know condoms don't protect you from $hit and teach him how WRONG IT IS TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF GIRLS USING ALCHOL OR ANYTHING and how woman should be treated with respect as an other human being should be.......as for the porn - thats not bad - don't give it to him directly just leave it somewhere you know he will find it - and if you ever walk in on him watching it just tell him your not mad and its okay and a good learing method but you do not condone sexual activites. geeez...................and i am assuming you have never been in love cause if you ever were you would never tell him to say i love u to someone - that right there is like having ur heart ripped out. oh and one more thing a good parent does not let thoughts like this out of there own mind not even on answers yahoo ..................pervert

Answer 6

Your son is 15. Shouldn't you be concentrating more on him getting his education. If you are going to teach him anything, why not teach him about safe sex instead of how to drink, get drunk and be irresponsible. It wouldn't make you a bad father, just a not to wise father.

Answer 7

Safe sex, porn, books, and all that is fine. But lying? that can only end bad my friend. And which drinks to mix? Well i dont know bout that one either. Just tell him to be real.

Answer 8

this is not a religiuos question but a morality issue, pro is that you will be the additional informant of your son regarding this; cons so you think he have not one source with the current society it is so rampant.

unless your son has moral integrity better than your current thinking this is part of growing up as a parent i think our role is to guide him to the right path so he can be the better person in the future.

also consider garbage in is always garbage out.

Answer 9

you are so wrong, what you are doing is teach your son how
to disrepect women,, use women and serious trouble.
with spike drink which could be rape,. sound like he need
to know how to be a real man when the time comes for
him to be. trust me you dont want this kind of behavor
from your son.

Answer 10

Just because there are other people doing it around his age doesn't mean he has to, too. Take it like this. If he feels he is missing out on something, just tell him "the only thing you're missing out on is ruining your life." Good luck.